Ok, something has been puzzling me, why is it that I get random IM's on yahoo, here and just about anywhere else I may have a profile or whatever on that guys ask me if I am or like to Dominate?
When someone asks me this question, my brain automatically thinks bdsm Domaintrix/Submissive/Slave, whatever. I mean come on, just because I speak my mind and am blunt and stuff does not make me a dominatrix does it? True, some of that stuff is interesting, but I can not see my way ordering someone around in the bedroom of all places. I like an even playing field.
Yes, I am a Boss at work, I am demanding and impatient, but all that is out the door and am in neutral mode, I think, in other aspects of my life. I am actually fairly laid back. Again, I think.. though some guys lately that I have gotten involved with tell me otherwise. LOL
Oh well, who knows.. till my next rambling..
Charlotte
