"My life is spent in a perpetual alternation between two rhythms, the rhythm of attracting people for fear I may be lonely, and the rhythm of trying to get rid of them because I know that I am bored."
***I guess it's time to update a little.*** Never is a quote more true than that above. I've been a single parent since my son was born, pretty much. He is about to be 21 soon. Yes, primarily by choice. Life is hard enough for a Single woman trying to balance a career and raising a child without the mix of having to deal with the issues of the Male population. I had a couple of LTR's in between time, but the last one ended at 21. That's when I said I had enough. I am one strong ass, opinionated, independent Woman! I don't put up with anyone's BS, and say what is on my mind. But, my heart still tends to betray me from time to time so it seems. Any Man who wishes to be a friend on here is more than welcome to do so, but I gotta warn you, don't expect much attention from me. It's going to take a lot to get me to talk to you. You will need to come correct or don't come at all. My life is chaotic enough. If you are fortunate enough to truly get in to my world, please don't make me regret it. Gonna find me somebody...Not afraid to let go....Oh and just because I may show a little bit of skin, do not assume that I am easy or sleazy that just makes you look like an ass...
Let's get this straight!I am NOT a mover or a shaker, nor do I care to be. I can't even get myself leveled with Auto 11's despite WHO I have on my list. So, if YOU think adding me will get you success on this site, YOU are sadly mistaken! Though I may be friends with a number of top people, some I talk to regularly some I don't. I am neutral. I do not get involved in the drama!
I do not comment bomb, repeat, do not comment bomb. I rate 10's or 11's doesn't matter who you are. If I can't rate you either, I don't rate you at all. No sense in it. You get what you give too. You should know..
1-Shout Box is "Family" only. 2-"Salute" required for PM or comment. 3-No One can own me.
While I really enjoy comments, please don't leave me pass it on comments, I'll only delete them or 9 times out of 10 I will NOT pass them on. If you are going to leave music or vids on my comments, please disable auto-play feature as I will delete those as well.
OK, not to be a bitch, but if you are asking me to add you it is probably because I've rated you a 10 or 11. Just because I rated you doesn't mean I am going to add you. If you demand me to R/A/F you, it's an AUTO deny! If you want me to add you, you gotta at least rate my profile. Makes no difference to me if you do anything else. I'm not always here, even though I am always on, not a lot of people tend to get that though it says it on my name. So stop hating. Shout Box is family only, tired of people hating saying I'm rude because I ignore them. But yes I can be rude too. Anyway...Moving on..
People on my family list are people I think that kick ass,genuine and well worth a moment of your time.
Speaking of Family.. This guy, he kicks ass. I met him by buying him in a random auction and has been one of my greatest friends on here since.. ♏=Steve=♏ ENFORCER@DDR @ fubar
I have a myspace too, doesn't everyone? Want it, just ask.
Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned. Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned!
Love is giving someone the ability to break your heart. Yet trusting that they won't.
My heart tends to want the ones I can't have. One day, the one I want will want me too. It is then I will fall in his arms and cry. But it will be tears of Joy.
“Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson
Am a sucker for clean cut, clean shaved, great smelling.. sharp dressed men. That includes a plain white "T" and jeans kinda man!! And just because I rate you a 10 or 11 does not mean I want you in my pants!!
Sassy, Focused, Feisty, Funny, Stubborn, Independent, Loyal, Charming, Goofy, Spontaneous, Guarded, Lovable, Honest, Analytical, Inquisitive, Determined, Solitary, Humorous, Needy, Dependable, Leader, Silly, Giver, Taker, Affectionate, Nurturing, Enforcer, Curious, Gullible, Jumpy, Curvacious (ain't that the truth), Pretty, Compromising, Evil, Pain in the butt, Sexy, Naughty, Seductive, mysterious, Messy, Chaotic.. I'm sure there's lots more to say about myself but not sure what, oh and not all the moods at one time :o
I enjoy people who are upfront, life is too short to be playing games. So please speak your mind because I sure will speak mine. Never ask me questions you are not prepared to hear answers to.
Finally, why am I here? I don't know why, but till I figure it out, I am just enjoying the site.
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(last updated:June 13, 2009 @ 4:19 pm)
Just some quotes I picked up along the way...
“Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.”
“I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone.”
“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.”
“There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity.”
“Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, "She doesn't have what it takes"; They will say, "Women don't have what it takes";”
“Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.”
“Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the things women remember”
"Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to who its worth."
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