There's a lot to be said about being a Strong Woman. It is actually a difficult thing. You find that it creates a lot of obstacles. Primarily in having a personal relationship.
I was speaking with my all time best friend, who is a guy but unfortunately for both of us..lol he is also gay. We had often discussed that had it not been for that fact, we would have been perfect for each other. Funny isn't it. He said I am a very strong Woman, I have an aura about me that scares most guys. I laugh like crazy whenever he tells me this. But in fact, he is right.
I am not a fortune 500 exec, I do not have wealth beyond my means, I do not have mass materialistic things. But I am one Strong willed, driven woman with lots of passion and conviction for the things that I do and do not believe in. I am not easily swayed and stand up for what I do and do not believe in. I have a voice and do not hesitate to use it.
You would think that a strong woman who is fairly secure in themselves would not find it hard to find someone to share their world with, but actually it is. You see, it takes an equally strong man if not stronger in character who is secure in themselves that can stand up to me when needed yet succumb as well and not feel as if they have been beaten. It isn't a power play, it's a give and take.
With me, Guys only tend to scratch the surface, they never completely make it through the first few layers and see what is underneath it all. The 2 and I seriously mean only 2 that ever did get all the way through, only did because I had not yet fully developed who I am today. They were from my inexperienced years.
I may appear to be complicated but I really am simple.
