..first of all, is "observationally" even a word?...well if it's not.
It is now.
That's what I tend to be and lend that trait onto others that do not possess such a keen eye to observe the actions and motives of others.
Because in every action, or even non-action, there is a certain amount of truth spoken through both the written words and actions of the participants.
For example, if a person acts sheeplishly around you or cannot make eye contact of some variety, it speaks volumes about either how they feel about you or how they feel about themselves.
Strong, confident and truthful people can be told by their words and actions, which ultimatley leads to a level of respect and trust garnered over a period of time.
Such holds true on internet social sites as well, such as here myspace or the "other site" I always refer to it as, CherryTap.com.
People are forces of habit and pattern, for the most part.
They act similar toward certain people, say the same things, act the same ways in response to their feelings toward that individual or individuals held at the same level (be it love, co-worker, friend..etc) time and time again.
But what happens when that pattern noticably breaks?
Or is altered (aka doesn't fit the pattern)?
Or has the person made it that way?
Or is it something else entirley?
Or is it something that best remains unspoken?
Everyone leaves tracks and trails of information (aka truth) in both their written words and actions throughout the course of their lifetimes, with family, friends, relatives and relationships as well, be it in an online social site, family affair, work issues or wherever someone interacts with another.
I can only imagine the trail of said things I have left behind.
But when involved in such things , take notice, be observant, don't jump to conclusions and most of all ask questions.
For those who truly care for us are those that answer such questions without hesitation.
But most of all, be observant.
To everything.
Not obsessive.
Just observant.
Too many people take things for granted and close their minds to only hear what they want to hear and see what they wish to see.
The truth is always out there, waiting to be discovered.
People just need to open their eyes to see it.
*for the record, this post was not directed at anyone or any group of people in particular, just something to make you THINK and open your eyes to every point of view and possibility in the realm.*
..feels good to write again :)
Later kids!