It seems that from all the mumms out there two things always come to the top. relationships and sex. however if you pay attention sex is top of the heep. makes ya wonder, do people feel sex is the most important thing in a relationship? they constantly ask how many times, what postion ect. To me this means they seem to find sex most important, as if good sex is the key to a lasting relationship. while the relationship ones always are about distance. they never touch on what really makes a good relationship..
to me and to all those who have told me... that have good ones. its first and formost, friendship. you must find someone you can fully trust, and trust with everything. someone who does not judge you about your past but is willing to understand. well with that info i have always attempted to do this, but am unsure how i fair.. i would hope that i do well at this, and that things go well when i listen.
I can admit i am a curious cuss at times tho and i tend to ask questions that may make the other person feel uncomfortable. When i am a person who strives to understand all i can about as much as i can, because i know when i die, i will have not used as much of my brain as possible. thus i will never fill it up with knowledge.
for me understanding all i can, only makes me a better person. and to this day i understand this.
Sex is important in a relationship, but for me more important then that is how you treat the one you love, and how they see you. being in love, only creates desire, emotional, as well as sensual desire.
but each person has their priorities and it seems these days based on the mumms here sex is the key for most. it saddenes my heart to see such a development, that striving to show love to another, striving to create a relationship you can truley be proud of is avoided. Yet they always say the same things, a great relationship is one you build on before sex, its one that touches the heart and soul beyond any physical contact can ever accomplish. yet we as humans endevore to feel that touch, that closeness, probably because we were born with the feeling of being held tight and close in the womb of our mother.
and that is probably why we desire contact above all else. it may not be right, but it is human nature. and those who can find love. are the lucky ones. for me im complicated and probably pretty odd, but i do know what real love feels like, and i also know what its like to lose it. That is probably one reason why i have avoided falling in love for so long. cause i try to live by my heart not my mind, and when i lose, it hurts for a long time.
