Ladies, why not admit it, when you say that, "You wish you could find a nice guy that isnt a complete jerk to have a relationship with." you really mean, "I wish I could find a nice guy that isnt a complete jerk because I want a big/little brother to cry on their shoulder."
Now, i have a few female friends that are like my sister, and I have no problems with that.
HOWEVER, when someone brings a lady around to introduce her to a 'nice' guy, who isnt a jerk, us nice guys end up with another frigging sister!
I mean, when I was younger, boozed, partied, partook of chemical substances in search of the meaning of the universe, and was basically your typical scum bag, I had more women than I knew what to do with... AND many of them were those respectable types who liked something on the wild side. And you cant get much wilder than a biker/hotrodder type with an attitude against everything, who wore caps that said stuff like, "I dont date women who use four letter words, like dont, quit and stop"
Now that I have settled down in my old age, and have discovered what is really important, the only way I am gonna get a woman to look at me with more than brotherly love is to win the lotto and then make a few hundred million in the stock market.
Now, ladies, if you really want a nice guy, then stop turning him into your damn brother. Slap a flying liplock on the boy that rocks his world and makes him forget his name, the name of the current president, AND any woman that he may have had the slightest interest in.
OTHERWISE, JUST INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND ASK "ARE YOU BROTHER MATERIAL?"