Dear Ninja,
Is it really O.K. If it happens in a 3 way? I always thought a 3 way was 2 girls and 1 guy no matter what. I mean technically 1 girl and 2+ guys is a gang bang right? These modern sex practices have me so confused especially when I myself get do not get any practice!
~ Confused
Dear Confused.
A 3-some is just that. 3 people engaged in a sex act. 2 girls 1 guy is usually the preference of most men. It can indeed be 2 men, and it's not gay if there is no penetration man to man. Although, I do think 2 peens in the same hole would be in that gray area of just might be a little too awkward if anyone else heard about it. So just keep your swords separate.
A gangbang is 3 or more guys and 1 girl, or 3 or more girls and 1 guy. Option #2 would be a lot more fun for the guy. Something seems a little strange to me about how a guy could just sit there holding his peen waiting for his turn to get a little of the sloppy seconds, or thirds, or fourths. I guess the people who are into that have some kind of ettiquite about who goes when, and take the smaller guys first so they can feel like they aren't throwing a hot dog down a hallway.
An Orgy is just a bunch of people having sex at the same time and can encompass either single partner or multiple partner, 3-somes, gangbangs, etc.
No matter what kind of practice you have with sex, I suggest practicing safety first. STDs are rampant these days, and there are fewer and fewer of us who can actually, honestly, claim that we have never had one. And let's face it, some of them are life-threatening. Better to be safe than stupid.
Also, keep in mind when engaging in a multiple partner situation, herpes is actually transferred most by mouth to genital contact. And 70% of transfers happen when there are no signs or symptoms of an outbreak.
Happy humping!