Consider this my good deed for the decade:
If you don't want people to judge you, stop posting everything on social media sites.
No one is judging you for having random sex with 19 guys at a time. They are judging you because you were stupid enough to post that shit.
No one is judging you for being in a relationship. They are shaking their head at your stupidity because yesterday you statused about how big a piece of shit he is and how horrible he treats you, and today, you got engaged. Are you fuckin serious?!
You should probably stop tweeting every shit you take, and learn how to refrain from posting about smoking a bowl.
You are aware that current and potential employers are actually doing their social media homework on their potential hires?
EVERYTHING that you post can and will be used to show that you are a jackass, and not fit to do anything productive.
Remember kids, we live in the age of information. And sometimes, the less incriminating crap you post, the better you will be.
~Ninja