Ninja's blog: "Ask the Ninja"

Dear Ninja...

I find my self asking the same question over and over...Why am I so nice to people who walk all over me? I feel I have people who are friends with me for only one reason. Basically, I have many kiss ass people on my list. People who think they can use me to get something in return. I have very few true friends who know I am not this way...I guess it just irks me a bit. How do I stop being so f'ing nice to everyone? I think people would go into shell shock if I suddenly stopped being nice...its just how I have always been...Is a mass blocking spree in order here?

Sincerely...

Too f'ing nice to c*nty people.

Dear too Nice,

You can actually be TOO nice. And when you bend to the whims of others, they will eventually walk all over you. Sometimes, people will even do it without realizing they are. For all those people who ask for things and don't bother a simple "thank you," grab your 2x4 and swing away. I don't see the point in blocking them, but deletions, hell yes. You do want them to know you think they are leaches and not worth your time or effort. What better way to accomplish that then removing them letting them see how much happier you are without them in your kool aid.

If you really want to be mean, but can't, there's always someone you can send on your behalf to poke them with a stick. That way, you can maintain your innocence, and you get to laugh at their emo that is sure to follow.

On a side note, you know those Pumpkins floating around fu? Yeah, when you ask them for stuff, make sure you say THANK YOU. They take their time and effort to help you. They don't get paid, and it is their own time they are taking to help you learn how to do stuff that a 3 yr old could learn.

Also, those bananas floating around, yeah thank them too. Without them, you wouldn't have this site, that credit card debt, or some of craziest friends you could ever ask for. Because let's face it, you can't post the stuff you post here on facebook, well some of us can, but that's another blog.