I just realized a niece I raised from an infant until 17, on and off for just a few years, is turning 24 tomorrow. I didn't even know until a few years ago that I made a positive influence...She hated me for years, for not allowing her to be bad...well, thank the powers that be....because she was NOT blessed with good parents. They both were bad and good at different times. But I am proud of her strength. She holds 2 jobs and is very responsible except for minor indulgences.....I have my own as well....she wants to move back down here with me. I welcome that and time with such a strong young woman! After all....family IS EVERYTHING............................