Need a Good Idea?
HERE'S ONE:
Pick out some lingerie that you really like.
Make a list of everything you'd like your partner to do to you (or for you) while you're wearing it.
Order your story and include your full list and a description of the lingerie (and of yourself, if you like).
When you get your story, put on the lingerie and read the story to your partner...
AND ANOTHER:
Doesn't have to be lingerie...
Could be a particular meal, or a new perfume, or whatever.
The key is that whatever you choose should be very SPECIFIC and NOT THE USUAL.
You don't want your partner to miss the cue!
OR HOW ABOUT:
Create a soundtrack.
For each song you put on a CD or tape, give a description of what you want your partner to do during the song.
For example, you could include a favorite piece of music and the story could read,
"...as the familiar sound of (name that tune) floated through the room, she felt her lover's hands (doing what she wants them to be doing)..."
*You might have to read this one together a few times if you want your partner to remember each and every desire.
That could be a bonus?
EVER THOUGHT ABOUT:
Just Talking Dirty?
Don't forget, your brain is your most active sexual organ, and so a concept alone can be enough to inspire great sexual desire and tension.
Have a story created with you and your partner talking/acting/dressing differently than you normally (politely) would...
This is an incredible and usually irresistable turn-on. It is a very exciting and creative way to drop some inhibitions.
A LITTLE MORE FODDER:
Some scents that can arouse sexual desire in women: anise, cucumber, musk, sandalwood.
For men: vanilla, almond, apple, and believe it or not - pumpkin and nutmeg!
For both: lavender, chamomile, ylang-ylang, jasmine.
Scented candles come in all of these aromas and more.
Soy candles burn longer and more slowly (also at lower temps) than wax candles, and they're perfect for a long, romantic evening.
Ever taken turns with a blindfold?
Someplace besides the bedroom can be a very sexy change of pace.
Any and all of these ideas can be woven into a story - let your fantasies out of your head and onto the page.
Then share them with your lover.
You might just surprise yourself (and each other)!
