Things have been slowly changing for me over the past few years of my life. I have found someone that understands me even when times are grey. He has nothing against me studying the anciets arts of Wicca, my religion and Tries to be there for me through all my hardships in life. Bair is part Scottish like myself and we get along great. Piers has been trying his best to correct the mistakes that he made while we were together but I dont think that I could go through it again with him. I care for the boy but I am ready to settle down and have a real family life. Not to continue being a kid. So my heart has been looking elsewhere for the one to be with. James and I are going to be divorced on the 28th of this month and well we are still friends because we both promised one another that if things didnt work out that we would always remain friends! So I am taking things slow even with all the stuff going on in my life! I am actually holding on strongly and plan to keep on no matter what may come along. Men come and go but life still remains!