Understanding that sex isn't everything, people sometimes miss the point. Sex is a huge part of any relationship. It is sometimes the driving force that brings two people together. The complete and utter loss of control that accompanies that feeling of excitement. Yet how is it that a one can live on a realtionship just purely on sex? Can you sit back and not have any mental compatibility with someone after you have just screwed the hell out of them?
I have been there. I have had that feeling of complete sexual attraction but no mental compatibility at all. Lately it is coming about that I have lost all intrest in the whole idea of sex just being sex.
I want more. I don't want to come home with someone, roll around in the sheets and call it a day. Now don't get me wrong, I love having everything and anything done but I want to be able to talk the next morning. Not that awkward silence that accompanies most times. Tell me that when we wake up you are actually going to carry on a conversation with me like you did the night before, rather than just roll out and leave. Involvements of these two need to be understood.
I can look at you from across the room and know right off if I'm attracted to you. My blood rushes. My skin tingles. I want to touch you. Yet - to really blow my mind, you need to talk to me. Tell me something. Get my mind involved. If our minds mesh, then our bodies can take over. Nothing is sexier than a person that connects with you in your mind and in your bed.
I can make you want me, but can I also enter your mind for more than a piece of ass? Can you make love to my mind? Let me hear your voice, hear your words. Explain the way beer is made. Tell me why it is dangerous to smoke cigarettes. Tell me anything that is of some intrest. I cannot imagine going through life with someone that cannot carry a conversation. My mind needs to know that there are other things than the hum drum of life, that there is life outside of my bedroom.
