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So it's a little after one and I'm still wide awake. "Why?",you ask. Because I can not seem to find the power switch to this brain of mine. It's always something anymore. Tonight, it's men. Not any that are currently in my life, or any that have ever been. Just men in general and what I need/ want in my next relationship. "Begging for trouble" ,you say. Yes, probaly. But if I don't figure out what I need/want, who is ever gonna know? Bear with me folks. I know I'm a little scatterbrained sometimes. This will probaly be one of those posts I go back and add to....just a thought.
1. He must have a job of some sort. Whether it be at Mcdonalds or the coal mine, a job is a must. Ps. Drug dealing or "Hustling" is not a job! I say this not because I want someone to support me but because I want you to be able to support yourself.
2. He must like children. My babies are my everything. I don't want you to replace their
father, nor do I expect you to help raise them. I have that under control. But in order for me to be a part of your life, my children have to be a part of it as well.
3. He must have dreams, aspirations, goals even. He must want to do something with his life besides sit on the couch and drink beer.
4. He must be sincere and honest and not tell me things just because he thinks that is what I want to hear.
5. NO mama's boys!!!!!!! Please and thank you!
6. He must have hobbies and friends and intrests outside of our relationship. Yes, I should enjoy spending time with him but I also enjoy my alone time.
7. He must talk to his Mother with respect. If he doesn't respect the woman who made him, How can I expect him to have respect for me? Which leads me to #8
8. He should respect that I am my own person. I have my hobbies, my intrests, my friends, my ambitions, and my own dreams.
9. He should want me to be a better person than I was..Not try to change me into something that he wants me to be but help me grow and learn and not bring me down.....
Hmmm....ok well thats all I have for the moment....To be continued.....lol
