iC51NerdyBitchxOGAHOWNERxHDsPORTxDNSxRGx's blog: "Pet Peevs"

I know why men do it. They think it’s courteous. And yes, it is courteous, but seriously, I’m not looking for someone to have a tea party with. I like when men steal kisses. When they go in for the kill. When a man asks, it just ruins it for me. What am I supposed to say, “Umm, okay?” or “No, sorry… I uh… don’t feel like it?” I think I speak for all women when I say, please don’t make us have to spell out rejection for you! When you ask for a kiss and we don’t want to kiss you, it’s awkward. If we do want to kiss you, you kill the spontaneity of the moment. I just feel like telling all those men, “Damn it! Make like Nike and just do it!” See, here’s why. If you ask, we think you’re cute for asking. We’re thinking, what a nice guy. He’s so sweet. Are those the adjectives you want to describe you? Nice, cute, sweet? If you just go in for the kill, you won’t get those adjectives. Maybe she’ll be talking about the kiss for days…. Weeks even… Years even… She’ll be relaying it to friends… She’ll think your kiss could rival a movie kiss… She’ll describe it (or you) not as sweet, nice and cute, but hot, intense, smooth, unforgettable… Oh, this kiss comes to mind, young Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio in Romeo and Juliet. So go ahead, steal that kiss. You may get the cheek dodge, but at least she can say you tried and took the risk!