whenever i hear 'its not that complicated'
i get annoyed.
unless ones life is perfectly in order and they know exactly who they are and what they want to be and where they're headed every second of their entire lives...than its on the complicated side.
saying men only want beer, pizza and tangle-free sex is idiocy.
pure and simple.
sure.
plenty of men only want those things.
its only due to the fact their iq is equal to a single digit shoe size.
some play games.
some enjoy being the complicated confusing person they perceive women to be.
saying women only want to get married and procreate and have all men on a leash is idiocy as well.
and sure...there are some psychosomatic women out there that would win awards for 'stalking'
and they have issues. and sincerely require psychiatric help.
it all boils down to honesty.
plain and simple.
things are only as ocmplicated as the parties involved.
its not 'things are only as complicated as you make them'
cuz yannow what?
we've all been on the side of that confusing coin.
the side where...we're not exactly sure where we stand and if we have 'legs' or not...which makes us rethink not only our relationship choices but ourselves as a whole.
i think it just boils down to the fact that assumptions piss me off.
i think perhaps...sometimes...people cant be bothered to actually figure things out.
so they blame it on complication or non-complication. when its much easier to tell the truth.
especially when the truth is 'havent a bloody clue'...but that would mean is admitting weakness.
tree forbid that happen.
its much easier to brush things off in a flippant sort of noncommital manner...anything...rather than simple honesty.
