I dont get why they must torture me. Me and my ex-fiancee have been apart for over a year now, and yet he calls me out of no where to tell me that he is thinking of me. The man is engaged again. I dont need to hear that shit it was hard enough breaking up with him. He is the one person that I never said "lets just be friends". When we ended it, it was done, over with, el fineto. So I guess what I am trying to figure out is why he (or guys in general) do this? Why cant they just let it be dead? So if you have any insight please enlighten me.