*sorry for the typo errors
Love is the most contagious illness in the world. It is the root of all stupidity that has been with us since the earth began living. It can cause you a lot of things, but there are only few symptoms. This love that I am referring to is not in general though; to be specific it is about guys and girls who are into each other.
It starts by crushing somebody, asks you out, kiss and make out, intimacy, and leaves you with a broken heart. Tears will flood the entire universe, much worse than what is shown in the movie “Waterworld”. It’s like AIDS and HIV, falling in love is HIV and love is AIDS. Falling in love will be the start, and when it’s not prevented it may become a fully pledge love.
I have been trying to avoid love since I broke up with my last boyfriend and that was a thousand years ago. Believe me it was traumatic. After that, I told myself that I will never fall in love or love in order not to get hurt. I have been cured. And the only cure to this decease can only be found in you. Forget about it for a moment. Have your heart take some rest. Our hearts get tired sometimes, especially when it’s being use to some moron who comes in to your life. So people, have a break (have a kit Kat). I may not have a survey for this, but this is a fact already. A lot of people have proven it that our hearts are tired of loving and our eyes are tired of crying.
When love struck a person, some people say that there is nothing you can do about it. Actually there is. All you have to do is prioritize other things. Then an argument will rise up. And will say “but you just can’t help thinking about it”, my answer is this, “The reason why you can’t help thinking about it, is that, you don’t want to stop!” as simple as that. People have choices. There is no such thing as ‘there’s nothing you can do about it’. That’s B.S.! If you don’t want something, you will make excuses for it, but if you want something, you have tons of ways to do it. So how come you can’t avoid love? If you want, you can!
A lot of people have been struggling for this thing called love. Questions rise up and confuse you, then you will make a problem, and after that you will make it as your friend’s problem too. You ask advice in which you will not apply, so what the purpose of asking advice and help when you don’t even want to understand. The point of asking for help is for you to be able to figure things out on what you need to do. Then it is pointless to seek help when you still do it your way and your way alone.
If a friend asks you an opinion of what you think on his/her situation, always start with this question “what do you want me to say, something that you want to hear, or something honest?”, then after that you will identify if this person has the decease or simply pathetic. But it’s a good start though; maybe it will help you solve your own demons and may answer your own questions.
What is it that you really want? You have to know that. It’s the most difficult question to all of us. Planning what you need to do can help you a lot. Lowering your expectations is a big one as well. Knowing yourself can cure this decease. That’s all it takes. I am not saying this because I am an expert, but I am basing it on my experiences. Experiences can help you a lot; it makes you stronger and smarter. Use your mind and not you heart. And when the time comes that you need to have love again, then you’ll know what to do, because you’re smarter and tougher. There is nothing that people can do or say to hurt you because now you know better!
~diwata~
