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One philosophy we Fubar Bouncers try to follow is the refusal to get involved in member drama. We often point at TOS #7 when someone complains they are getting harassed.
Recently, my attention was drawn to this little gem of a status message:
This self-serving statement came from the profile of a 20-year-old female. While the rules prevented me from killing the rude status message from the very obviously self-obsessed female, after some thought, I decided that it would be a better idea to enlighten and educate those of us on Fubar who feel that they are better than others just because their bodies meet the description of something closer to what's considered the "norm."
I started to browse her pictures and noticed something else: she, herself, was no waif, and definitely was no supermodel. I am no expert, and I'm definitely not GQ model material, but it seemed to me that she was the epitome of the type of person who uses "projection" to cry out about her frustrations over her own low self-esteem. Sadly, these people do not realize that their lack of consideration hurts others reading her post; not everyone handles issues of self-image in the same way.
If I knew this girl better, I would probably suggest to her to keep her negativity to herself, or find another, more constructive way to vent. However, this is Fubar, and image is everything... right?
By the way: cleavage and chest shots without faces are almost always going to be marked NSFW by Fubar Bouncers. It may be best not to follow her advice. Let us see your faces. Some of you look better than you think.
