ok so i admitt it. i am not the best looking guy. but i feel i am far from ugly. so i do not have big arm or six pack abs. but i am in shape. i may not have a black belt in martial arts, but i can still kick the crap out of some one when i need to. so what if being a bartender is not the best job with great money, but i enjoy it and support myself and have helped others with what i make. so why it that i can not find "my other half"? why is it that the girls i meet only want guys that are model types or that have lots of money? i sit and search myself. i go out and talk to women yet all i get is that they r not interested. i can understand it if they have a husband or a boyfriend. but why is it that i can not even get past the hand shake?