One of my best buddies got married a year ago to an old high school flame. They found each other after almost 40 years on Facebook. I still think marriage is a wonderful thing if you manage to hook up with someone who a truly compatible fit. And she is unequivocally the head of the family. Yes, making way more money than him, she "pays the cost to be the boss" between them. Im not trippin on that and its not my place to voice it to them. No, here's the problem: Since I care about him and see that he is not alright with the bossiness, I think she needs to take a few security pills. She wants to know who he's talking to on the phone and for how long. She controlls all the spending and gives him a strict allowance. She dictates when they will engage in recreation including when sex will be granted. Some might say that he may be too irrisponsibe or immature at 53 years old. And he loves her dearly. She a cute lady. But also has a very vicious controlling temper. But I would never suggest he depart from her when he complains about her manipulative nature. I just shrug and say. If you love her, get over that and work with her. What would you say?