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Same reason women do. Ego, greed and no focus. That probably wasnt the answer you were hoping for. But you see, there is no proof that men would be inherently less moral than women. In fact, if that is how you see gender differences, then you are of the same mindset as a racist. Yes, a harsh word that we all hate. But think about how racism works: Negatively stereotyping a certain group according to wrong assumptions and acting on that error. And if as a woman, you generalize all latino or black men as less ethical, trustworthy than others, you have become sexist and racist. Keep in mind that the people who left a trail of destruction in our lives could never have done so if we hadn't picked them and allowed them to. Sometimes for superficial or just plain wrong reasons like looks, status, wealth or danger appeal. I understand that people can be deceptive upon first contact until they have earned your trust, but is labeling all people who look a certain way negatively the safe route? Of course not. So I'm saying all this to set your mind on the intelligent course of cultivating sensible intuition, or how to judge a book by its content rather than its cover.

So why do men cheat? Well in addition to what I mentioned above, most people put the cart ahead of the horse. Passion and sex usually comes first before getting to know who that person is. And once the need to copulate has been satisfied, there is usually nothing left in common to maintain the bond. A successful relationship cannot live in bed on sex. Eventually, reality bites. Bills come, compatibility, friends and family issues arise. Many times we can see the red flags down the road, but we ignore them as we press on, hoping for luck to fix what was defective from the beginning. Life gets harder as pressures build, not to mention if babies appear. Now the party is over. You either get serious about being a family or as many immature people do, you bail. Next, a romantic attraction to someone outside the home could develop. Or it might be that a woman is continually ignored or a husband is constantly criticized. Suddenly another person at work or maybe down the block, seems to possess the very qualities that are lacking in your relationship.

Soon the grass looks so much greener and a bond forms. The new relationship becomes almost irresistibly alluring. But wait... Look before you leap! How about instead of looking outside the realtionship to satisfy our desires—whether for affection, for friendship, or for support during a challenging ordeal, how about we get busy solidifying our relationship if we really are in it to win it. Grown folks who dont need everyone's attention know life aint easy and head up to the challenge instead of running away from their loved ones when the weather turns bad. They come home and make time to spend time together, and draw closer to each other. They look back and reflect on what caused them to fall in love and try to recapture the warmth they felt toward the person who became their mate. There is sentimental history full of the good times together over the weeks, months or hopefully, years.