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When the stars are in her eyes and the sun is in her smile, the only moment in a life
That happens the same time, is when a woman loves a man.

She'll be a mother and a child, sacrifice her days and nights. And no other will exsist
she'll put her life in every kiss, when a woman loves a man.


When a woman loves a man, you'll be amazed that when you're stumbling
she'll fight for you and won't let you give in. She'll do all that she can
When a woman loves a man.

A soothing breeze always blows when somebody understands another soul.
It's like the planets have aligned and every sentence has a rhyme
When a woman loves a man

Oh, you'll be amazed how when you're needing it, she'll fight for you
From the begining to the end and she'll do all that she can
When a woman loves her man

It's the greatest gift of all, knowing tht unconditionally
And she'll catch you when you fall when a woman loves a man


She'll be your air and sweeten your life
She will make the sacrifice when a woman loves a man

Women vs. Dating

Before you watch the video below, I just want to nake a coment on what I see happening more and more. It seems that someone is not teaching younger women about how visual men are generally. I see more of them wearing these tights and leggings in public, and those leave nothing to the male imagination. Every curve and contour id in full view. And with that so apparent, these women and some older ones too seem to be desperately trying to avoid being looked at. It used to be that they found staring annoying. And I would to if I were not dressed as they tend to be. But if I was out in public wearing like those tights the ballet guys wear on purpose, with all the package showing, then I would'nt have much of a case to be be offended, would I?... But then, Louis CK has another way to look at it. At least I think...


Here's the video

Women vs. Dating

Before you watch the video below, I just want to nake a coment on what I see happening more and more. It seems that someone is not teaching younger women about how visual men are generally. I see more of them wearing these tights and leggings in public, and those leave nothing to the male imagination. Every curve and contour id in full view. And with that so apparent, these women and some older ones too seem to be desperately trying to avoid being looked at. It used to be that they found staring annoying. And I would to if I were not dressed as they tend to be. But if I was out in public wearing like those tights the ballet guys wear on purpose, with all the package showing, then I would'nt have much of a case to be be offended, would I?... But then, Louis CK has another way to look at it. At least I think...


Here's the video

 

Its getting rough between men and women. Almost like it's a bad thing to try and hook up. I guess the creeps and pervs outnumber us ordinary blokes as they harass women on and offline so much to where women are just lumping us all into a big fecal pile of misogyny. And while I see that as narrow-minded and short-sighted, there is a grain of truth in there somewhere. Here is an episodal excerpt from an indirect Facebook contact...

"Ok, so I'm new at this meet and greet thing on the internet, and never got completely comfortable with it. However, I have met a few ppl on Fb and let my guard down. Its been nothing but wonderful. But... on some occasions I met some nuts, several "I love you's" a few marriage proposals, 3 obsessive stalkers. That was all child's play. This one guy
I've been talking to all week by phone and text, claiming to be 33, takes the cake! With a to die for body, single, no kids, bachelor pad, is actually 53, heavy, bald, married with adult kids and living with his wife! He put up phony pictures. And then he confessed all his lies to me, crying over the phone, and he is a minister!! The worst is that it wouldn't have even mattered to me what he looked like. But OMG the lies! It was just too much! I feel devastated, stupid, used, betrayed, you name it. Damned shame. Never again. Just sharing so that you beware.  Facebook can be wonderful, But be careful!"

Ok so all I get from this is that there are plenty of shady sheisters, male and female, everywhere you turn. Some people, even married may be confused as to what is right, wrong or just plain demented. And who can define that these days when it is always up for interpretation daily? And then, many  are afraid to just be themselves, or may not even know who that might be!

I saw this on another website and instead of just posting a link, I thought I would share my own mashup on this subject. There are many reasons to start a Friends with Benefits relationship. The problem is, these things have a tendency to go south pretty quick, in a bad way. Maybe you just got out of a relationship and aren’t ready for something serious. Maybe you have a really hot friend. Maybe you live alone and don’t have cable. No need to fear. Just follow these rules for a mess-free Friends with Benefits arrangement!

1. Pick someone you wouldn’t normally date. Okay, this is important. This will ensure that you don’t accidently fall in love, or at least postpone it for as long as possible. I suggest someone you dont feel socially compatible with. Maybe even someone of an alternate race, ethnicity to spice up the intrigue.

2. Insist that things will not get complicated. It’s just sex. What’s complicated about that? All you’re doing is engaging in the most intimate act two people can perform, on a regular basis with someone whom you’re attracted to. You’re a solo pilot, taking on the big sky, in control of your own destiny and making your own choices. God speed, Superhero!

3. Don’t text them for anything other than sex. Don’t make up excuses to text, like how your super was a jerk today, or you saw this really nice sunset. Keep your messages focused on future hookups only. And for that matter, keep them succinct and free of too much sexual innuendo. You never know who they're sharing texts with.

4. Have them slap you across the butt. Friends with Benefits are like sexual test kitchens, and tonight you’re dressed as Dennis Rodman as she sits on your face. Seriously, this is an opportunity to try all that stuff you were too embarrassed to try in previous relationships. Experiment, have fun, and please share the details here!

5. Don’t make breakfast. Don’t even keep food in your fridge except for ramen noodles and some old fruit. You need to make your apartment as uninviting as possible in the morning. You don’t want her sticking around plundering your smartphone or messing with your Netflix queue. That’s girlfriend stuff. If anything, she gets 30 minutes and a bagel; then it’s out the door.

6. Don’t kiss her goodbye. Remember, this is not a relationship. Remind yourself of this by having incredibly uncomfortable goodbyes devoid of affection and eye contact. A pat on the arm or a shoulder squeeze does nicely in a pinch. If you’re not sure what to say as she eases out the door, "catch ya later, buddy" works nicely or an unenthusiastic "later, babe!" is also fine.

7. Break it off after three months (or don’t). Three months is the longest amount of time one can sustain this kind of relationship without it getting complicated. After three months, it’s an emotional free for all. You’re probably going to start getting cosmic about the whole thing. Time to refer back to rule number two, and continue onward despite your best interest. Just remember you’ve been warned.

8. Dont fall in love! If the fact that she owns a foosball table but not a microwave has suddenly gone from sad to charming, congratulations! You’re sadly deluded while you’re only a few commitment free nights away from choosing your children’s names. But wait, do you even know her last name? Do you even know when is her birthday? Should you care?

9. Reach your breaking point. Friends with Benefits are like junk food. They’re addictive and delicious, but they don’t sustain you, and one day you’re going to wake up in a bed of metaphorical Snickers wrappers and think crap, what am I doing? Time to sit down with yourself and ask, is this actually going anywhere or am I just backing myself into an emotional corner? If the answers are no, and corner, please refer to the next rule...

10. Send her on her way. This is the way your relationship ends. Not with a bang (although try to squeeze one more in if you can), but with a whimper. Yes, it hurts, but you’ve done the right thing. Remember when you started this, and you went on to your friends about how you’re a strong, independent, man? It’s still true, despite the fact that you managed to fall in love with a part-time aeorobics instructor who keeps saying “hella.” Now you’re sitting in the dark at the kitchen table at 2 a.m., crying in beer and listening to 'The Love I Lost" on repeat. Hey, we’re all allowed one. Just remember that you’re going to be fine. Take a few minutes, then turn off the music and turn on Netflix.

Evolution: Not.

Adam and Eve were created toward the end of the sixth creative rather than a literal 24 hour “day.” There are no actual records of ancient man, his writing, agriculture, and other pursuits, extending into the past before 4026 B.C.E., the date of Adam’s creation. Since the Scriptures outline man’s history from the very creation of the first human pair, there can be no such thing as “prehistoric man.” Fossil records in the earth provide no link between man and the animals. Then, too, there is a total absence of reference to any subhumans in man’s earliest records, whether these be written documents, cave drawings, sculptures, or the like. The Scriptures make clear the opposite, that man was originally a son of God and that he has degenerated. Archaeologist O. D. Miller observed: “The tradition of the ‘golden age,’ then, was not a myth. The old doctrine of a subsequent decadence, of a sad degeneracy of the human race, from an original state of happiness and purity, undoubtedly embodied a great, but lamentable truth. Our modern philosophies of history, which begin with the primeval man as a savage, evidently need a new introduction. . . . No; the primeval man was not a savage.”Har-Moad, 1892, p. 417.

The Bible reveals that man’s original home was “a garden in Eden.” Its indicated location is relatively near the place of mankind’s early post-Flood civilization. The Eden of Biblical Genesis has been variously located at the headwaters of the Tigris and Euphrates rivers in northern Irag, in Africa and in the Persian Gulf. The Eden in Ezekiel, however, is considered to be located in Lebanon. The view  accepted by many scholars is expressed by P. J. Wiseman: “All the real evidence we have, that of Genesis, archaeology, and the traditions of men, points to the Mesopotamian plain as the oldest home of man. Far Eastern civilization, whether Chinese or Indian, cannot compete with this land in the antiquity of its peoples, for it can easily sustain its claim to be the cradle of civilization.”New Discoveries in Babylonia About Genesis, 1949, p. 28.

The Mouse Trap

A mouse peeked through a crack in the wall and saw the farmer and his wife opening a package. "What food might this contain?" the mouse wondered. He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap. Rushing out to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning: "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The chicken clucked, scratched, raised her head and said "Mr.Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it." The mouse turned to the pig and told him "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The pig sympathized, but said "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."

The mouse turned to the cow and said "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The cow said "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose." So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the mousetrap alone. That very night, a sound was heard throughout the house, like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever. Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient. But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. The farmer's wife did not get well. Instead, she died. So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.

The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness. So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you, remember: when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all connected in this circle of life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another. Each of us is a vital thread in another person's life tapestry.

Remembering Dad: 1997

I think of my own father whenever I hear these lyrics, sung by Mike & The Mechanics...

Every generation blames the one before. And all of their frustrations come beating on your door. I know that I'm a prisoner to all my father held so dear. I know that I'm a hostage to all his hopes and fears. I just wish I could have told him in the living years.

Crumpled bits of paper filled with imperfect thought. Stilted conversations, I'm afraid that's all we've got. You say you just don't see it, he says it's perfect sense. You just can't get agreement in this present tense. We just talk a different language, talkin' in defense...

Say it loud, say it clear. You can listen as well as you hear. It's too late when we die, to admit we don't see eye to eye

So we open up a quarrel between the present and the past. We only sacrifice the future...
It's the bitterness that lasts

So don't yield to the fortunes you sometimes see as fate. It may have a new perspective On a different date. And if you don't give up, and don't give in, you may just be ok.

Say it loud, say it clear. You can listen as well as you hear. It's too late when we die,
t
o admit we don't see eye to eye

I wasn't there that morning when my Father passed away. I didn't get to tell him All the things I had to say. I think I caught his spirit later that same year. I'm sure I heard his echo In my nephew's new born tears. I just wish I could have told him in the living years

Say it loud, say it clear. You can listen as well as you hear. It's too late when we die,
t
o admit we don't see eye to eye

Say it loud, say it clear.... Don't give up. Never give in.  You can listen as well as you hear.
It's too late when we die, to admit we don't see eye to eye...

The Beat vs. Lyrics

Generally, black people respond to the beat. Not all of them. But most I have ever known. Is it an African thang? Could be. But I think it has more to do with the love of dancing. Soul Train was not just a coincidence. The show became a hit because not only did the young people on there love dancing and became experts at it, but the country fell in love with watching themn as well. And it was the bass beat of the music played that made it all possible. Not the philosphically intellectual story the songs told. Nothing wrong with that.

But this is more like cpmparing apples to oranges than if the two factions were competing for revelancy, even if there might be those who appease their egos by presuming that psycho-surrealistic music out-classes bass and drum rhythyms pounded by the likes of Parliament Funkadelic. Can we all just get along? If not, and youre one of those conforming politically correct whiners who got offended, thinking this post was stereotypical, well there are plenty of other blogs to click over to...



 

 

Here's how it goes... 
Between 18 and 22, a woman is like Africa.
Half discovered, half wild, fertile and
Naturally beautiful! 

 Between 23 and 30, a woman is like Europe.
Well developed and open to trade,
especially for someone of real value.
 
 

Between 31 and 35, a woman is like Spain.
Very hot, relaxed and convinced of her own beauty.
 

 

Between 36 and 40, a woman is like Greece.
Gently aging but still a warm and desirable place to visit.

 

Between 41 and 50, a woman is like Great Britain,
with a glorious and all conquering past.
 

 

Between 51 and 60, a woman is like Israel.
She has been through war, doesn't make
the same mistakes twice,
and takes care of business.
 
 

Between 61 and 70, a woman is like Canada.
Self-preserving, but open to meeting new people.
  
 

After 70, she becomes Tibet.
Wildly beautiful, with a mysterious past,
a
nd the wisdom of the ages.
An adventurous spirit and a thirst for
Spiritual knowledge.

THE GEOGRAPHY OF A MAN
 
Between 1 and 90, we are like Iran:
R
uled by a pair of nuts. 
THE END

Not like that is such a bad thing. Lol

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