How come a man will say he's "not ready" for
a serious relationship with one woman... and then
meet another woman a few weeks or months later
and be smitten with her and get involved in a
deep and lasting relationship that he freely
commits himself to?
What in the world is going on here?
Are men lying?
Do they just not know what they're feeling?
Or is it something else?
When I first started studying the whole area
of dating and relationships, there was something
I just couldn't understand about why men fell for
some women and not others... and why suddenly a
man would go from "unavailable" to emotionally
engaged and deeply in love with another woman.
Then it hit me as one day I made a crucial
discovery that changed the way I looked at dating,
love and relationships.
In short, here's what I discovered...
We like to think that our more CONSCIOUS MIND
is the one doing the choosing and deciding... and
that what we talk about and say directly is what
matters most and influences the people around us.
Not true.
After years of learning and observation
I've found that for men, falling in love and
choosing to be with a woman because of the way
she makes him FEEL is not a "logical" and 100%
conscious decision.
It's much more subtle and INDIRECT than that.
What makes a man truly fall for a woman has a
whole lot more to do with the "triggers" that pull
a man into that rarely visited place deep inside
his heart and mind that most women just don't know
how to get in touch with inside a man.
Do you know what these "triggers" are that
can instantly start to make a man wild with
anticipation just to be in your presence?
And do you know what the greatest "trigger" of
all is that can instantly draw a man into that
open and loving space inside him to where he'll
cast away all his fears of commitment and of
losing his freedom, and simply want to be with
you?
I'll tell you-
It's the magic feeling of ATTRACTION.
This one thing is so important that it really
is the ROOT of everything else - sharing affection,
getting a man to want to communicate and open up,
having him want to commit, feeling connected and
close, the list goes on...
ALL of these can be traced back to how much
ATTRACTION you've built between the two of you.
Of course, I'm not just talking about that
plain old "Physical Attraction" a man can feel.
That's something you know a man can and does
experience simply walking down the street and
seeing a beautiful woman.
I'm talking about another, deeper and more
EMOTIONAL kind of attraction that bonds a man
to ONE WOMAN and let's him know that he wants
to be with her, and only her.
And if you don't know that there's this
"other" kind of attraction, one that goes beyond
just Physical Attraction - then it's going to
be VERY DIFFICULT to have a man feel and experience
that deep level of emotional connection and
desire for you that will make him want a deep
and LASTING relationship.
If you don't know what this other kind of
attraction is, don't worry...
That's why I made it the focus of an entire
CD/DVD program I put together to help you.
It's called Natural & Lasting Attraction.
This program is the best way to learn how to
ignite - and KEEP - the flame of attraction
burning.
I highly recommend you check it out. It will
mean the difference between being in a loving,
fulfilling relationship that lasts... or another
relationship where you have to do all the "work"
yourself just to try and keep it together while
the man you're with keeps pulling away and grows
more and more DISTANT.
Don't let this keep happening, when the answer
is so fun and easy - create the magic feeling of
ATTRACTION inside a man that will tell him you
are truly the one woman for him.
He'll love you for it.
I promise.
And you'll LOVE what you get from him in
return.
Go here to learn more and watch some free
video clips:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/e/12833/NALA/?cid=ZZZVQX&lid=1&ll=1
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
