How To Be A "Real Man" And Trigger Attraction In Women
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>>>QUESTION:
Hi Mate...
From the Land Downunder... I think we'll just call
you "Son of Croc Dundee."
Here's an interesting observation, a success story
and a question.
The observation.
In the late eighties/ early nineties at the height
of the feminist "revolution" in Oz there was a
constant refrain from women ... "Where have all
the men gone?" It was in the media, and women
spoke about this 'ailment' continually. Well the
short answer to this question is that they (the
women) had neutered them (the men) ... or rather
the men had allowed themselves to be neutered.
What you're doing here is important. Single handed
you're giving men back their self respect.
The success story.
I ran a version of that personal ad. The phone
didn't stop running hot for two weeks. If I had
wings I would fly. I might do it anyway.
The question.
Looking back on my two most recent (didn't work
out) relationships that were pre "Son of Croc
Dundee" I noticed a pattern. The 'didn't work
out' part happened when I was under some pressure
and the wimpy part of me emerged.
Now... everyone has problems, and I'm usually
strong enough to handle them. However, within the
law of the "Son of Croc Dundee" should you never
be "weak"? Hard call for a sensitive soul. What's
the balance here?
What say you Maestro?
K.
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>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know... you say that back in the late 80s
and early 90s women were asking "Where have all
the men gone?"...
Well, I think that women are saying it more
than EVER now.
I'm going to handle this in two parts. First I
want to address your initial comments, then I'd
like to answer your question. So first, your
comments...
One of my best friends told me about a
television show he saw that featured a woman who
was talking about male/female relationship
dynamics.
This woman was basically saying that a lot of
men in this day and age were raised by single
mothers, and that this has led to more and more
men acting like, well, girly-men. And, of course,
single women aren't looking for wussy-girly-men...
they're looking for "real" men.
I personally find this idea very intriguing.
When I watched the movie "Crouching Tiger,
Hidden Dragon"..., I saw something very
interesting. Part of the plot revolved around a
forbidden-love relationship. It's a common "movie"
theme, and it occurs in real life often as well.
Here's a summary...
In this movie, there was a troubled teenage
girl who was arranged to be married by her family.
Of course, she didn't love the guy, and wanted to
be free to find a love on her own.
As it turned out, she was also secretly a
super-duper martial arts bad-ass.
One day, while on a trip through the desert,
her entourage was attacked by a group of bandits.
The leader of the criminals was a Johnny Depp
looking Asian guy. He rode up, stole her fancy
hair-comb, and rode off.
Being the feisty girl that she was, she jumped
on a horse and rode into the desert after the bad
(but cute) boy.
They wound up fighting, wrestling and beating
the hell out of each other.
The long and the short of it is... he abducted
her, tied her up, and hid her away in a cave. And
somehow, right in the middle of it all, they began
MAKING OUT.
Five years ago I would have watched this whole
sequence and said, "Well, it doesn't make any
sense, but it makes for a nice story..."
But now that I understand the illogical nature
of attraction and sexual chemistry, I see a
totally different picture.
When the cute bad-boy took off, and she rode
after him and started fighting with him, there
were two different levels of communication
happening.
On the surface, she was chasing him to get her
hair comb back.
But looking at it from a different perspective,
and looking at a deeper level, SHE HAD FINALLY MET
A MAN WHO WAS AN INTERESTING CHALLENGE... and she
responded instantly and powerfully by feeling
magnetically attracted to him in a way that caused
her to leave her group behind and risk her life.
And the fighting that occurred can be seen as
just plain fighting... or, if you understand male-
female dynamics, you can also see that on a
different level they were FLIRTING. The tension
that was building between them was also SEXUAL
tension.
She had finally met "a real man", and she
responded powerfully to him.
Not long after they fell for each other, the
bad-boy started to say some downright sensitive
things (I don't think he's read my book). He was
telling romantic stories about shooting stars, and
he risked his life to be with her again... and
confessed his love, etc.
This is a round-about way of addressing your
comments and answering your question, but this
story helps me to put my answers in perspective.
As far as being "a real man" goes, I think that
it's a good idea. Women respond powerfully to
"male-ness". If it is expressed in a powerful
way, it can create an amazing attraction inside of
a woman. As you've learned by reading my book,
there are a lot of simple ways to do this.
If you'd like to learn the "secret" that these
"real men" use to attract women, check this out:
On Being A Man
To answer your question "Should you ever be
weak?", I say:
Most men act weak ALL THE TIME when they are in
the presence of an attractive woman. This is a big
problem.
If a woman sees you as a "weak man", then
trying to "be strong" will never work. You will
only come across as a weak guy who's trying to
"act strong".
On the other hand, a guy who is thought of as a
"real man"... one who does not act weak during the
first several interactions with a woman, can have
a "weak moment" later on and actually have a woman
respond in a very powerful, positive way.
In other words, if you're perceived as a "real
man", then you can do whatever you want, and it
will be perceived as part of that personality.
But if you are perceived as a "weak man", then
NOTHING you can do will trigger the strong gut-
level attraction inside of a woman.
And nothing will change that picture inside of
a woman's head. Once you're thought of as a weak,
nice, ass-kissing guy, it's like an invisible
switch gets switched off inside of a woman. And
it's not coming back on anytime soon.
So, the big question is, how do you project
this "real man" image? How do you be yourself
while at the same time doing the things that
create attraction? How do you act in an authentic
way, while amplifying those parts of your
personality that are most likely to trigger the
attraction mechanism inside of women?
Part of the answer is to realize that just
about every communication has several levels of
meaning. When you tease, act cocky and funny, and
bust a woman's balls, you could viewed as being a
mean jerk. Or, if you do it right you can be
viewed as an interesting, sexy man.
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David D.