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As most of you already know, and some that may not.. Here's how it goes...
Most of you know me, from the old days of AD (After Dark), some of which I have remained close with, others I have not, for more reasons than I care to mention. As most of you know, I have met the man of my dreams of FU, and I am forever grateful for that. I have since moved 2800+ miles to be with him, and live my life as his woman. Along the way, I made two "pit stops" so to speak. One planned, one unplanned. The first stop was to what I thought was a long time friend of mine, turned out to be a sicko, two-faced maniac, and no, I won't go into details, because there is no use beating a dead horse. The second stop, was to a friend helping me out of stop #1. This friend, was very so polite, and nice to me, knowingly that I was only staying for 3 weeks, They (her and her hubby) opened their home, and their arms to me for those 3 weeks. The time came for me to part with them, and continue on with my journal to the West Coast. That 'friend' helped out and paid for the trip, expecting my boyfriend, to pay her back. An agreement between the two of them, that, in turn, has nothing to do with me. For 3 months, she has harassed me, and even kicked me off her friends lists, profile, etc, because I have politely told her that it was an agreement between THEM TWO, not me, and I was not in it nor choosing sides. This friend, has then told me that I am a selfish person, because I left my child with his grandmother for a short period of time, so I can make sure that this place (West Coast) was safe for him to be here, and that I was staying. As most of you on fu know... Not all relationships are guaranteed, no matter how well you believe you know this person or not, so I was looking out in the best interest of my child, and making sure he was safe, happy, and taken care of.
Now, here it is 5 months later, I am very satisfied with my decision on coming to the West Coast. I have gained employeement, and we have recently moved into a bigger place, to accomadate for the room of my son, as well as the other children. Two weeks ago, we purchased the plane tickets to fly back East to go get my child. This morning, we purchased the plane tickets for the flight back here with the 3 of us together. And my family will be complete and happy! Some of you, who's cell numbers that I have, got the massive "TRIP COMPLETELY" text message this morning, when I informed everyone how excited I was about finally getting this major step out of the way, and finally accomplished. And believe me, I AM EXCITED!
My REASON for this blog, is that #2 pitstop... Received that text as well. Most of you replied back with "Congrats".. "I bet you're excited".. etc. Thank you all for those text messages, they mean a lot to me! :) "#2 Pitstop" replies with "U still owe me money. I know I will neva c it unless I take u 2 court n I am not up 2 that atm. Please leave me alone. Best 2 u." ... And as you all know, I'm not one to leave things unfinished... So my reply was "I don't owe u anyting. (Boyfriend) does. And if you're stupid enough to take him to court for $50 then go right ahead. Eat shit & Choke." ... Reply back from her "It is not stupid and wow I can see you have not grown up at all if you contact me again expect to be contacted by the police as I have had enough of your harass"
#1 Yes, she said "Harass" and not "Harassment"... #2 Can you seriously take someone to court for $50? #3 If so, then wouldn't they be spending twice that amount in court cost, if not more, for trying to sue someone out of state, let alone across country for $50? #4 I THOUGHT this person was MY friend, and understood that the 'agreement' was NOT made with me, YES, it was MY plane ticket, and YES, I was present at her house at the time of 'purchase'... BUT I did NOT agree to pay her ANYTHING, and I will state, that I have told the boyfriend, after her being a cunt and not asking him, instead of me, then I wouldn't pay her. This includes her comments of me choosing a MAN over MY CHILD, and that I was a selfish bitch, and a no good mother. Mind you, at least I'm going to GET my child....... -cough cough cough-
I have been reading people's blogs, comments, etc. On fubar here lately, and this whole 'fight' so to speak, with this SO CALLED friend, just makes me realize, fubar isn't the only place that you make friends "with money"... But in the Real World, if people don't have your money, or the people around that person doesn't have your money, you look like a fukking idiot for not asking the right person for your money in the first place. Ok. I think I'm done venting now. :) Have a good fu-day! :)
