Ok, I am extremely pissed off at my ex-husband right now and need to get some things off my chest. I'm seriously debating whether or not to send this e-mail to him....I just don't know....
I just wanted to let you know how much you have hurt your daughter. I know you don’t care, your reaction when I told you when Mom and I saw you in Target on the day after Thanksgiving said it all. I told you, flat out, when she talked to you the last time, and asked when you were going to take her again and your response was I don’t know, we’re busy, that she ended up crying for 2 hours straight and your response? A shrug of the shoulders and “Oh.” like you could care less that you broke your daughter’s heart. Not that I truly expected less from you, but it still pissed me off.
Just like the other day when I e-mailed you to inquire whether you would be spending time with her on Christmas Eve, since you didn’t even bother to call her on Thanksgiving and you called me to let me know that you guys were going to be too busy to make time for her. WTF is wrong with you???? No, she isn’t your flesh and blood but she’s still your daughter. You make me sick.
You can’t honestly tell me you two have been dusting and painting for almost three months. I know, your new wife is probably thinking that Angelica is the trouble maker because you couldn’t have possibly done what she said you did. Need I remind you of the New Years Eve when she was like 6 years old and wouldn’t go to bed the second you told her to because she wanted to hang her new calendar so you pinned her up against the wall? I’m sure you neglected to tell her about that, it’s easier to blame the innocent 11 year old. Angelica wasn’t the one that called the cops either, I did and yes, it was necessary. If you felt the need to grab her by the shoulders and shove her into a dark room, knowing she’s afraid of the dark, and the fact that I just don’t trust you, yeah.
You need to just grow some balls and a backbone and either stand up to your wife or let Angelica know you just don’t want to have anything to do with her. I’m just sorry her first true heart break had to come from her father, not her first true love. You’re a sorry excuse for a man and I’m sorry I ever married you and let you adopt her. She’d have been better off, in some instances, with her biological dead beat dad. At least he never abused her.
I’m pretty sure a lot of this has to do with Donna. Angelica told me that before you two got married Donna said she didn’t want Angelica around because she talks too much. Has she looked in the mirror? I swear she talks more than Angelica does. Oh, that’s probably the problem!!! With Angelica there she can’t talk incessantly about what a bad mother I am and how more than half of your income comes to me for child support and how I’m just a horrible, horrible person. Tell her she needs to get her facts straight before spewing lies like that. I still laugh at your attempt to reduce the child support. As the judge said, you read the divorce papers; you signed them, that implies an understanding and agreement so you’re stuck. We both know what you pay for child support is nowhere near half of your income. Did you forget that we were married for almost 2 years so I know how much you were making? I doubt they decreased your pay.
You’re an asshole and I’m sorry I ever let you into our lives. Do us both a favor, grow the balls I mentioned above, and admit to your daughter, who has never done anything but love you unconditionally that you’re a horrible father and want nothing to do with her to please your wife. You’re a sorry excuse for a man and I’m glad I got out when I did. You make me all the more grateful for the wonderful man I found in Donnie. At least he’s honest.
Oh, and you both claim to be Christians? You’re the worst excuse for a Christian I have ever seen. Just like I KNOW that Donna told Angelica she was going to hell because we call our priests Father and there is only one Father. Where the hell does she get off? She doesn’t know jack and needs to keep her big mouth shut when it comes to religion. So yes, we’re different religions…so what??? Nobody ever said one religion was better than the other or that one was right and one was wrong until she came into the picture. I’m STILL undoing the damage from that one.
I hope you two have a nice life without your daughter around. I know that will make both of you very happy and I truly am sorry you aren’t man enough to stand up to anyone. You feel the need to hurt our daughter, who has already been hurt enough.
