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Love Is Not All Romance

Romance is not all Love

We hear so many things about romance ... and as i get older its not only  all the pretty words we say say

.. though it starts out that way... it is the things we enjoy together ... 

it is going out with our friends and then coming back to tell our new stories.. 

its cuddling at night, under the same blanket.. not for sex but for intimacy..

Love is isnt only fairytales.. princes, and beautiful castles, no fights and candlelight.. 

Love is fighting for each other , willing to make the best of everything.. fighting fair, love is all day... Love is making compromises you can live with... 

Love is being with your best friend wants to be there...

Love allows for freedom to grow.. 

Love doesn't isolate.. it brings together your loved ones

It doesn't cage each other out of fear... 

But works through it..

A beautiful love , doesn't make you lose yourself so much that you don't know who you are.. 

It is looking after each other , repsecting each other, dating each other as the years go by ... 

it is encouraging each on our journies... 

It is sharing deep and intimate conversations... 

it is checking to see if the other is ok ... 

It's caling on the way home to let the partner know your ok...

Love is not only Roses ... with sweet , lustful perfume

Roses come with thorns too... come comes with fears and vunrabilities, insecurities as well

It is perfect, but we are human...

It is being there when its inconveinent... staying up late just to talk 

seeing each other when its hard ...becaue your schedule is so busy

Love can't keep away so long...  

Love takes sacrifice ... to grow it

Love takes trust... to resepct it 

Love is a journey.. Every day

love takes time .. to grow ...to be nutured.. like a beautiful garden...

Loves weeds must be pulled regulary... 

Loves communication must be honest and clear... 

Misunderstanding need to be cleared up..

Love must listen to each other and take turns to be in the spotlight...

Love is understanding...

Love is so much more then i can describe in English ..

 In latin , or greek some of its deepth can be reached... 

Love will make you want to do crazy things.. 

It will make you want to try new things , go on new adventures..

Love is not all romance 

Romance is not all love ...