DragonMaster Fears None's blog: "The Big Fight"

It now seems I have to dance to HER tune as far as seeing my sons is concerned…….she has dictated to me Just what time and where I am to meet them, she even indicates that she has taken legal advice in reaching these demands…. When will this woman ever learn that our children are not some pawn in a game of I am going to squeeze you until you hurt and in fact by refusing to let me see the boys, which by she gave me a date to comply by or she will stop me seeing them, she will only achieve in hurting the boys even more than she has done in the past!!............................... It is bad enough that I will not be seeing them for christmas yet if she had her way she will stop me seeing them forever!!

Ok..heads up.....it didn't happen, waited an hour for the boys to show up and it seems the excuse was.......she was stuck in a supermarket!!! I can't wait to hear next weeks excuse

As part of her getting me evicted from my own home, the Judge decided that I was not allowed anywhere near the house ever again.....so when I see the boys she has to bring them to me.....simple you might think.......NOOOOOOOOOO Way, tomorrow I am taking them swimming and then off to a local town for the afternoon and have asked her to drop the boys off where we are going swimming...fair request you might think...... Think again....she has told me to pick them up from a park which is less than half a mile from the house rather than put herself out and drive them the extra 2 miles to where I have asked....so for that to happen, I have to drive 50 miles from my place, park the car at the park, pick up the boys, get a taxi......$10 each way, take them swimming, $15/$20, take the train, another $20 and what ever we spend while out in town, lunch and so on when all it will cost her is less than $2 in fuel.......Oh gee, do you think I should give in????

Well the BIG day is finally here......in the morning (Thursday)we go to court for the final time.......and this time tomorrow I expect to be homeless after being evicted....some of you know what has happened for it to get this far and trust me.....if I go down, it will be with ALL guns blazing.....she thinks she hates me now.....well she has not seen anything yet.....trust me. I am not going to give up the home I have struggled to keep going and I am in no way going to give up the boys without a bigger fight as I firmly believe that the law here is oh so very wrong and should not favour the woman in circumstances like this where at the end of the day she has her interests very much at heart and in no way puts our sons first....in fact they don't even come a close second!!!!!!........ but we will let the courts decide just how the future goes and this is not just my future either.....I could have walked away ages ago.....But I stand firmly on principles....very strong ones at that.....so the answer will be given tomorrowand if it is the wrong one then the system will be detroying the lives of two very loving, caring boys just for th sake of bucks/pounds stirling, which, when I last looked could in no way buy the love that a child needs or indeed it's health and happiness too...I don't care what happens to me....I DO CARE WHAT HAPPENS TO MY SONS!!!

Ok Guys...what can I say.....yet again went to court this morning to continue where we left off...only for her side to submit a whole new statement of which I had no idea about and boy is she going real dirty.......anyway....I had no counsil and coupled with with her side not having all the proper paperwork in yada yada yada......it got put back once again...so here we are, back to square one but this time I get a lawyer.....which I have 2 weeks to get all the final papers from her lawyers then another 2 weeks to get my side of it tied up and then she has to re-apply for a hearing, which I am assured will not take place now earlier than July and could even be as far away as October......which, with what happened today should make it a very interesting ride indeed BUT..right now I do still have one ace up my sleeve........sory can't say as you just do not know who gets to see this as she did break in to my account here last year and copied some of my messages!!!!!!.... So...upshot is....not closer to a resolve.....and just a lil more tension as well.....don't you just love the legal system!!!!!!

Ok.....Last minute hitch....her barrester was caught on another case...so we ran out of court time......which now means got to go through it all again on Tuesday morning...qand it will be concluded on the day.....so I am really looking for a spare room to move in to sometime after that........will keep you posted. Love Peace Understanding Out

Ok guys...the big day has arrived.....today is the day when it goes to court, the day the Ex tries to get me out of the house for good....is gonna be a tough one to fight as normally the courts choose to side on the one who has custody of the children, sadly on that one she has me 4 to zip...however, the reason she is taking me to court is by saying I am a violent person and she is in fear of her life, her daughter's life and the lives of my son's, very interesting though that there is no mention of her other son though!!!!!....ok....hands up who thinks or feels I am a violent person!!!!!...al of you know me and I don't feel that one person can say that I am, so can it be proven.....well there are no records of me ever having been arrested or even spoken to by the police so it is going to be a case of her word against mine and as far as I can see, her case hinges on one thing, the now famouse Laptop incident which should all boils down to owbership of the laptop at the time......so as you can see it is very much wide open at this time....I will let you know as and when I know later just what the outcome will be but should anyone have a spare room........LOL. I want to end by thanking everyone who has supported me thus far, you guys are the tops and I know I will have each of you by my side today in the courtroom... Love and hugs to you all Be good to each other Be safe, be happy and most of all....BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!!! Peace Out