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The following weeks are going to be devoted to 28 questions. The 1st 5 i had already completed a year ago when i had my old profile. i am doing these questions with my new sub sister and will post both my old answer (for the questions i did answer), my new response and my sister's responsse as well.
Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Take in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description of combination? If you do not use a label, why?
It does have a label. Once it was slave, and probably still is to some extent. i strive for more of a baby girl though, which is more of the dynamic i’d like to have. If i was asked what the label is at this time, i would say it’s more of a top/bottom dynamic. i say this because my dominant does not always display dominant behaviors. Top, yes, but He does not always follow through on what He says He is going to do nor is He always consistent. It often leaves me floundering to define and remember what my position should be based on His perceived definition of O/our dynamic. See, i believe that the less “Master” He is, the less “slave” i tend to try to be. If He is indifferent in His Dominance of me, then it creates an indifference in my submission to Him. If He fails to show the care a Daddy should show His baby girl, the brattier His baby girl becomes. It’s then that i need to see the “Master” display His Dominance!
A year has gone since the first post and it’s amazing how much has changed, yet stayed the same. I have a new sub sister now and as part of her training i have been tasked by Daddy to help. These questions are part of that training. Since i never completed the questions myself, i thought i would also do them alongside my sister. The next entry is how i see myself now as opposed to a year ago.
My submission has a label still. It’s still a slave in many ways, but the bond between a Daddy Dom and baby girl has become stronger, so that there are is less a slave dynamic. i still am not allowed to tell Daddy no, i still obey (or try to) everything He tells me to do. i am still registered as a slave and wear a slave’s collar. A year ago, i labeled my dynamic as more top/bottom and i suppose that hasn’t really changed much. Daddy, has after a year begun to take O/our dynamic and O/our relationship a little more serious, i think. He has finally become more involved, more hands on and stricter in His rule over His slave. Thank God and it’s about time! Still, He can be indecisive at times. i can’t number the times i have told Him to make up His mind. He sometimes says things having not fully thought them through until i bring up an objection about it. Most often, i can negotiate my way into or out of things. Of course, i have good arguments to back up my reasoning. Because of the little attention He has begun to demonstrate, i am a little more the slave i am supposed to be. No longer is He indifferent to Dominance, which means i am no longer indifferent to being His slave. i still long for Him to exhibit more control, though i am not sure in what way or how He could. All i know is that my heart tells me there is more to Him and His ability than i have experienced. i think i am ready for Him to explore my thresholds and break some boundaries. Once He really begins to do that, then i can honestly say we have a Master/slave to Daddy/baby girl labeled dynamic and not just a top/bottom relationship.
PERFECTANGLEK’S RESPONSE:
My label would be dominant and submissive. The reason being is I need that structure and and guidance also with a little brat in there. The brat I think comes from past experience where I wasn't re receiving that structure that was needed I need that fire under my ass I think. I need more than what I was receiving. I'm hoping to continue that dom and sub in the future and become better than what I am right now!
