....that none of this ever happend at all but unfortunataly, it did.
For those who must know....Jacob and I went to Italy in June of 2003; jacob was born in September 24th. He was in fact, 8/9 months old at the time of us living with my husband at the time, now ex husband. And at Christmas time, when jacob was just around 3 months old, we got to go to Italy for the first time to spend the holidays with him. And for those who think that jacob was not in his father's life before he turned one, had better think again...I have pictures of Jacob's first birthday party with all of us wishing him a "happy bday". Well, me, my ex and another good family, whom I dearly do miss.
I am tired of all of the bickering and whinning about how my kids father will have to make certain changes in his life when he has another family to take care of too. You think I do not know that he has another family to take care of? Alls I ask for is that he take some time off; a week or two to spend time with his kids. Heck, I can even meet half way in St. Louis yet again. And just because I said that it should be around father's day does not mean that it has to be aroud that time....just made a statement about how I want the kids to be apart of their father's life...apparently, someone does'nt like the fact that I am trying to make plans for her husband to take away time for her and her children...well, boohoo....**tears**. That's not what Im actually asking for anyhows; I dont want him to take his time away from you or anybody.
I guess, I can not expect for my ex to take any kind of leave though to come out here and get his kids, however...because his wife thinks that it is a waist of time spending her husband's saved up leave time to just drive one days worth to come out and pick up the kids. Leave time that should be saved up at some point for the likes of her. But okay, so I guess it was wrong of me to send my ex an email about letting him have the kids for father's day...when I think it is like next month or so....yes, it is too late for that but at some point, sometime down the road something can happen only if the father agrees to my offer. But I guess this all happens to be going thru his wife first before he makes any kind of decisions; dont want to disturb the mother ship...lol.
