This is a clip from the movie the holiday...Kate winslet has a part in this clip that speaks volumes...as she speaks of how people can make someone feel so insignificant at times...I think its the first time a movie has ever captured the true identity of a womans broken heart.
Its funny How we as women allow men to do the things they do to us because of the insignifant value they place on use early on. I stopped allowing a man to make me insignificant years ago...so far I have walked away from every man i have had a relationship with because of this. This may sound a little fucked up....But what the truth of the matter is ...is the fucked up part is having to be put in that situation...made to decide between yourself, your dignity and your self respect....Or them...Well....I will always choose me. I would rather spend the rest of my life alone than deal with or put up with the lack of respect from an ordinary man that in no way shows any extraordinary value. I sit here and watch people i know, friends , aquaintances , and just people in general putting up with such things that are far beyond my capabilities of understanding. Cheating, emotional abuse, using....they sit there and make all this ok ...with one word...Love..."but i love them" to them this makes this all ok and tolerable.
The word love has become a word that is used to make Ur unhappiness worth while. Since when is that love? I understand one sided love and loving someone that doesnt love you back but wants you in their life...ive done it...and guess what...its not worth the price of admission...I lost three years of my life over that one. Its so not worth it. I sit here and watch people struggle over this kind of shit....and i get so flippen angry because they dont realize the kind of person it turns them into...I dont know....just sometimes i wish people would wake up, look around them and realize they are worth more than what a man makes them worth...
