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Ya know, sometimes I just wish I had all of the answers. Seems here as of late, I can't seem to find a decent female that wants a dececent guy. Most would say that I'm looking in the wrong places, while some of that might be true, I don't get why we still have to have the high school mentality. By that I mean why does a female's friends, and everyone around her have to approve of how a guy looks before she will accept him? I mean comeon, I thought we'd grown up, and gotten over the pitty high school bullshit. Look I know I'm not a decent looking, or good looking guy, but I have a lot to offer a female. I have tried and tried, and tired, and all I find is people slamming doors in my face. I have a lot of redeeming qualities, and there are physical things that I am working on, but ya know it'd be nice to have someone want me for me, and want to keep me around, and want to go do things with me, but no, I can't even find that. Hell all I seem to find are the females with 3+ kids, sorry, It's great that you have 3 kids, I hope they are all well, but that's just not what I'm looking for. I want to have a family of my own one day, not have someone I'm married to, plus my son, and their children, and we have no child together. That's kind of a bond, at least I think. Yes I have a son, and no, you can't meet him. If I'm going to date someone, she's going to have to prove she's not going to run out of my life first, before she ever gets close to my son. Sorry, but I don't need my son seeing a different girl in my life everytime he's here. I have been single for 2 years because of this fact, because I can't seem to find someone worth spending my time and effort on. Because anymore it's all about looks. Sorry I'm not putting my effort and everything into a superficial relationship only to be dumped when something better comes along. Been there, done that, won't make the same mistake twice. I guess it's just asking too much for someone to actually love someone for who they are, and not who they aren't. I guess the fact that I have a college education, decent up bringing, I'm funny, I have a sense of humor, I am fun loving, I'm always having fun, and parents like me. But I guess none of that makes a difference anymore. I guess getting married, having children, and such are reserved for the Ken's and Barbie's out there, not for the decent, good guys like myself. I guess it's true, good guys always finish last. Please don't say that they don't, because you wouldn't date me, or want me, so yeah they do finish last. I had one female on here tell me that good guys finish first with her, and we got to talking and she said that she liked me, and that she thinks that we should be a couple, so I sent her a pic, and never heard from her again. Yeah, nice guys finish last...until proven otherwise, that's what I'll think. I don't think I've ever been in a relationship that I haven't been cheated on, or anything like that, so yeah, take it or leave it. I guess my jaded out look is valid until someone can prove me wrong.
