Being a Mom is never easy. Were always checking and making sure things are safe for our children. Keeping up with the housework, being a bus driver when our children need to go to practice or a christmas program or to a friends house. Keeping the other half happy (That in it self can be the biggest job)....
Being a friend is never easy, till u get to know them so well that u can feel what they are doing over 1,000 miles away. I have a soulmate friend whom we share these feelings. Like I said nothing is ever easy. She feels my feelings whether I am sad or happy she feels these things. I love my friend to death she is so part of me but I feel her pain and anger sometimes and it really makes it hard for me and her because thats where mixed emotions come in and we are tangled together.
My Job is never easy either. I am a bus driver and its for little children under the age of 4 and they are a challenge everyday. Trying to keep them inline and working with them to know there name and place to sit on the bus and when to be quiet and knowing where they live. What teacher they have. And how to talk language wise on the bus is very hard for them to learn. Parents around here behind closed doors can really make my job a challenge.
Boyfriends, Well that is a whole nother ball park. Trying to make them happy as well as trying to keep yourself in check and in a good mood for them is something else. You try to do something good and they end up making you look like a big J.A. But on the other hand they can be gentle and kind and try to show you the way they think is right. Take it into consideration but don't believe everything they tell you because you can switch it around and take advantage of the situation and make it your own. Sex is a good example for that one. But yet again I am still learning even after 11 years I thought sex was one way and yet he and my girlfriend told me a bunch of new ways that I never knew existed. Like I said "Nothing is Ever Easy....
Make good use of your time, cause time is all we got. So use it wisely, and all good things will come back to you in its own sweet time. Just remember we all can't downshift that quick, so don't break the shifter....
