Mr. Right Isn't Interested? Try This...
>Tip: If you've ever had the experience of dating
a man you knew was right for you, but you weren't
able to attract him or keep his interest for more
than "fun" or a few dates, there's something you
need to know - the single worst dating mistake
that most women make that push men away and turn
them off can be easily avoided, if you know what
it is. Discover the 5 "symptoms" of this mistake
and learn what to do instead to quickly capture
a man's attention and interest right here:
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What makes a man want to stay single?
And what makes a man want to stay single
and not have a relationship even when he's
dating an amazing woman?
Keep reading to find out.
Here's something you should know...
Did you know that most men make up their
minds about whether they'd "get serious" and
try out a relationship within the first few
minutes of having met a woman?
It's true.
If you don't know what to say or do early on
to get a man's interest for the RIGHT REASONS...
then the first "exchanges" between you and a man
could keep him from ever wanting to explore a
relationship with you.
I see it happen all the time...
A woman meets a fantastic guy and they hit
it off.
The chemistry is amazing. They laugh, talk,
and have tons of things in common.
It just feels right.
They go out several times and end up getting
"physical" early on.
And since all the basic elements are there
to start a great relationship, and this guy seems
like he could be "the one", the women starts to
really open up.
But just as she's becoming more and more
EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED, the truth comes out...
The man has ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in having
a real relationship.
He says something like:
"It's not you... it's me."
Or...
"I'm just not interested in a relationship
right now."
Or...
"You're great, but if we went out I know
we'd get serious really quickly and I'm not
ready for all that. I don't want to hurt you."
Give me a nod here if you know what I'm
talking about.
If you've experienced this kind of thing
before, then you know that men will come up with
every excuse in the book to try and AVOID a
relationship.
Sometimes it seems like men's minds' are
simply searching for every possible excuse or
way out.
That way they don't have to deal with the
fact that there's an amazing woman right in
front of them who could be the love of their
lives.
So let me ask you...
Why is finding the right person such a bad
thing to men?
And what can YOU do as a woman to avoid all
these "traps" that other women constantly walk
into and trigger with men that keep them from
ever finding and starting the relationship that
they really want?
Good questions.
After years and years of thinking about all
this, of talking to men and women, and spending
years observing and studying what's really going
on at a deeper level... I've discovered something
that TONS of women are doing when meeting and
dating men that INSTANTLY pushes that WITHDRAWAL
button where a man will not only not want to get
any closer to a woman...
But he'll want to get away from her altogether.
Don't be one of the many women who keep on
making this mistake without even knowing it.
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seem interested but not want more, and to learn
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Now, let's get back to it...
It's one thing when you're dating a man and
he tells you he doesn't want a relationship, and
that he isn't ready.
But here's where it gets even more bizarre
and PREDICTABLE when it comes to men and how
they think about dating and new relationships...
After a man dates you and says he's NOT READY
for a relationship, unless you're the unlucky
kind of woman who likes to torture herself by
trying to CONVINCE a man that he should want a
relationship with you... you listen and move on.
You try and respect the fact that, for
whatever reason, he's not in a place where
he's capable of having a real relationship.
But for lots of women, this is when the
unthinkable happens...
A few weeks or months later you can't believe
what you hear-
This same man who was dead-set on staying
single and not having a relationship is suddenly
IN LOVE with ANOTHER WOMAN.
And to add insult to injury... things are
getting very "serious" and moving very, very
quickly for him with this other woman.
What!
What's going on here?
For most women, it's in these moments that
a few "truths" become clear to you:
1) Men don't know what they want...
How many times have you had a man say one
thing, or show you that he felt or thought one
thing... but then he did something that was
completely the opposite?
Why does a man do this?
Is he lying?
Did he mean to deceive you and hurt you?
Or did he do this for another reason?
What if I told you that when a man likes
you and is interested... he'll often say things
about the way he feels about you just to get your
interested and attention?
And what if I told you that these things
that he thought and felt could change VERY, VERY
QUICKLY as you're getting to know each other
and "dating"?
Would that change the way you think about
men and how they don't know what they want?
It should.
2) You can't trust what a man tells you...
If you're a woman who's been hurt before
in a relationship, then odds are you're finding
it hard to believe a man or trust him much further
than you could throw him.
It's understandable.
But did you know that if you've been hurt
from a past relationship and you carry some
doubt and fear about men in general...
Then no matter how you try and come across
to him... a man will sense this inside you when
you go out with him - even if you don't say
anything about it or mention it.
Your inability to trust a man won't allow
you to "connect" with him on a deeper level.
And without that CONNECTION where a man
feels like you really "get" him... he'll never
get past that superficial level of conversation
and start becoming EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED and
drawn to you.
In other words... the fear that you have
that he'll turn out like other men that you've
known will "leak" out in subtle ways. And it
will not only keep you both from growing
closer... but it will give him the intuitive
feeling that something is off, and he'll leave.
If you're talking to a new man in your life
or dating and you have the bad experiences of
the past in your mind... you're practically
guaranteeing failure for yourself and for the
relationship you're trying to get started.
Men don't like women and don't feel comfortable
or ATTRACTED when a woman is full of doubt and
fear from her past relationships.
It's a HUGE turn off.
3) Men don't make any sense to you...
There's something that keeps coming up
over and over in my life that's I find absolutely
fascinating...
It's that everywhere I go I meet smart women
who are what a friend of mine calls "Man Stupid".
Raise your hand if you're guilty of this
yourself.
It's amazing to me how many brilliant, smart,
sweet, caring, wise and loving women I've met
who have failure after failure when it comes to
men, dating, and relationships.
And for these smart women, since they're so
capable and successful in every other area of
their life... they can't believe that they
wouldn't be able to make things work with a man
in a relationship.
But here's the fatal mistake they make...
They think that the fact that they are smart,
educated, capable, successful, etc. in other
areas of life should somehow "translate" into
knowing what to do when it comes to men and their
love life.
But nothing could be farther from the truth.
In fact, the belief that you know how things
work with men and dating just because you're a
woman and you think about these things all the
time and you really want love to work out in your
life actually works against you.
Why does this work against you?
Simply put - because it keeps you from ever
accepting the fact that you don't know what you
need to know about how men think, and how things
work when it comes to a real and lasting relationship
with a man.
There's a kind of subtle shame that I've
learned some women carry because they think that
they were born not knowing something that every
other woman was born knowing.
Wrong!
Not knowing how men think, and how men really
are different when it comes to dating and what
catches a his attention and interest isn't a
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Your Friend,
Christian Carter
