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Chances....Chances are a normal everyday part of life, we take chances in everything that we do. Every day we walk out the door we take a chance that we may not make it back that day. Some of us take more chances or others doing our job, or dealing with this or that but that's not what I want to talk about.
Chances with people are by far the most risky. You never know what will happen if you take that chance or 'leap of faith' to be with someone. There's a lot of factors that play into it, and sometimes people don't understand just how many play into a decision to like someone, or even begin to tell them that they like them. I understand that we've all been hurt before, hell I have most since the year started then in past few years, but again, that's no one's fault but mine. Because I'm a retarded dumbass. I'm a shy person when it comes to relationships, because I've been rejected so many times, because no one will take a chance on me. I'm not a bad guy, honestly I'm a caring guy, and just want to be loved, but no one again will take that chance. Which is fine I'm ready to live my life alone with my son and dog, makes me no mind. However when you are scared to take a chance on someone that isn't going to hurt you, and has expressed an interest in you, and yet you still don't seem to want anything to do with them, or the classic line, 'I want to take this slow'. To me that's a way of telling me I don't want you, I don't want to take a chance with you, which fine, but don't expect me to be all happy. My life moves very fast, I have sometimes seconds to make life and death calls. I do this with my life, because it's what I know, it's all I know, it's how I survive. Everyone survives differently, that's how I do it, that's all I know, I don't know how to take a relationship slow, the last few I did, I ended up getting cheated on, and it was a big mess. I can understand if you need time, but obviously if someone is telling you that they want you, and want to be with you, perhaps you shouldn't keep pushing them away.
The other thing that got to me, I was talking to someone that I would do anything for, she knows this, and again 'wants to take it slow'. I said something about dating, her response was, 'how are we going to date if we're in two different states?' Knowing that her last relationship was out of state and they were 'dating'. To me that tells me that it's not worth my which is fine. If people don't wanna take a chance on a decent guy, and allow him to show them he's not like the rest, then so be it. But don't say there's no good guys out there, because the ones that would give you a chance, you pass by because of looks, or your own insecurities. I have learned that most females are 1.) materialistic (ie what are you gonna get me, what are you gonna buy me), and 2.) always looking for the next best thing. They can't be happy with what they have, then when they get what they think is the next be thing, and it turns out it wasn't, they want what they had. Sorry ladies, it doesn't work like that. You can't tell someone that you want the next be thing, and expect them to want to be friends or even care about you. That's just wrong, not to mention self centered. So no this isn't directed at anyone for anything, I'm using examples that have been used on me to make a point. If that upsets you, then perhaps you should've thought about it before you said it. 3.) Ladies, guys don't want to feel like they are second best in your life. A lot of work goes into a relationship, and if all you can do is whine and bitch about how perfect it's not, then perhaps it's not him, it YOU. Personally I'm just about finished with the whole dating, love, relationship, marriage, bullshit. I couldn't find a female that wanted me if I was the last guy on earth. Get pissed and say that's not true, but when you have tried and tried, and tried, and done NOTHING wrong but took a female who was a friend out on a date, didn't put moves on her, didn't expect sex, nothing just two friends catching up, and at the end of the night she tells you she never wants to see you again, that's a little wrong, a lot cold hearted, and lot of a bitch, or you ask one of they'd like to talk, and they either A.) ignore you, B.) tell you to go fuck yourself, oe C.) that they don't like your kind. And all you said was hello my name is Matt, would you be interested to talk sometime. There is no inuendo of sex, or love, or anything else. Why would you treat someone like that? Then the same females whine, complain, bitch, moan, piss, and everything else because there isn't any good guys out there. If they'd open up their fucking eyes, and quit worrying about what their friends will say perhaps they could find someone. Yeah I'm not skinny, but I'm willing to be I"m smarter then 75% of the males on this site, and that's because I have 3 college degrees. I guess being smart isn't a good thing, but being a jerk, an asshole, a cheater, a liar, a player, an abuser, and everything else is what women want. If that's what you want, have it, but....don't bitch when you can't find a good guy because you're fucking standards are to the sky, and the only one's you'll date are models. Guess some people will learn, others won't. Either way I've said my peace, if it offends you, good, you probably deserved it, if you like it, then you know what it's like to be passed over because of some reason or another. Deuces all!
