David's blog: "Lessons learned on fubar"

I always find it amusing yet embarrassing as well, when men on fubar get upset at women who don't respond to their advances, messages, or respond but not how they expected or hoped for them to respond. Some women on here have made folders where they highlight the idiots that they encounter and display these morons in all of their idiotic glory! 

I have seen some of the folders in question and find them to be very entertaining reading, but I can't quite comprehend how a man feels the need to insult a woman because she does not like the way he speaks to her in messages or does not respond to his messages. They go from "you're so beautiful and sexy to fuck you whore!" etc. That is what I would call the most ridiculous behavior a man could display towards a woman, not to mention that it is also a childish response. 

I have come across women on here that I would have loved to have gotten to know better. Even if it was just as an online chat friend. But every once in awhile I encounter a woman that does not respond to any of my messages. I don't get angry over it though. For one thing I don't really know her and have no right to demand a response. She owes me nothing! Sometimes she does respond only to tell me that she is not interested in chatting but just playing the game. I think that is a noble response and I like people who are direct about the way they respresent themselves. I had one woman who offered to give me access to her nsfw files if only I made her my crush. I did so and after three days of trying to access her files I decided to delete her as my crush. Her response was to curse me out and block me. 

One thing I can say about all this is that I don't get upset if you don't respond to my messages. After about three attempts I can take a hint. I don't keep writing nor do I devolve into a moronic idiot and resort to name calling and insults. I simply unfan and unfriend  you and keep it moving. There is no emotional stress involved nor any resentment either. I treat it the same way I would treat rejection in the real world. If I approached a woman and told her that I found her attractive and would like the opportunity to get to know her better and she told me that she was not interested. I would simply say okay and walk away. 

My personal opinion on this matter is that men who do take offense to rejection are insecure about themselves and seek validation about how good they look from the opposite sex. When that validation is not met they resort to name calling and vulgar insults as if that is going to make their already bad situation any better. My message to you men out there is that you all need to grow up! You don't know these women nor do you have any right to claim or expect anything from them. Move on and remember that there are always plenty fish in the sea.