So today I did something I thought I’d never do. Stand up for myself. Let me explain. I’m not good in the whole confrontational thing. Not my thing. Anyways, let me give you a rundown of what happened.
About 2 months ago or so, I started talking to a woman on fubar. I had no intentions
other than making some conversation and perhaps a friend. Ready for a headache?
Well here it comes :
1.Woman is living with BF we’ll call him B for argument purpsoses* .
2.B is abusive , physically and mentally to this woman.
3.I suggest that she leave him for her own preservation.
4.She refuses as she quit her job, B provides for her and he doesn’t have a car to get to work.
Yea.
5.B’s best friend moves in. We’ll call him Mr. A.
6.Mr A. takes a liking to this woman and they become involved.
Btw, those 20 Xanax’s you were saving, now would be a good time
To take them. : )
7.Mr. B doesn’t like the fact that Mr. A is doing is his girl.
8.Mr A. cheat’s on the woman (online and in RL).
9.He also bring’s his bf over, whom we’ll call Mr.C.
10.Mr. A and C have relations in front of the woman.
11.Woman is upset that she doesn’t have any money,rent is way past due as is the bills for the ISP.
12.Woman meets man on FUBAR and was given a proposition.Get naked on the cam and money will be wired. She does and guess what? No money was wired.
Not for nothing but I could told you that from the get go Darling.
At this point my head is about to explode ala SCANNERS.
13.Now Mr. B wants to move out of state with woman but she’s having second thoughts
Gee,Ya think?
So I say to this woman, in lieu of spending hrs on end on Fubar and your virtual pet site…why not get a job,any job? Save some money and move. Get this, she has some weird sense of dedication to these Loons.
So today I finally had enough...I told her "look I've given you the best advice I could..what ever you do is up to you,but I can't deal with this anymore...I have enough crap going on in my life".
So I took the liberty of blocking her on Yahoo and Fubar. I don't like being mean but like Popeye said...I can't takes no more. :)
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This is one of the major reasons I feel that sometimes deleting my account would be a viable option. Nothing is perfect in life, we all face trials and tribulations but I seem to be the magnet for it.
Why, beats me? Maybe I'm a listener. And not critical. Or perhaps I'm a sucker for a good story. Who knows...all I know is that no more.
I'll impart some knowledge,give some advice but other than that, don't get me involved with the soap opera of life.
Sounds cruel I know. And yes,now I'm feeling guilty about the whole blocking thing. Awww crap on a cracker.
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That brings me to my second thought......
I've always related to the underdog( btw I used to love the cartoon..hehe).
I know because I've been there many a time.
I've always tried to be understanding and forgiving. I've been stepped on,walked over,used and abused. No I'm not looking for a sympathy post or anything just stating a fact.
One of my guilty pleasures is Pro Wrestling. How does this relate to this blog. Watch this kids!
There's a pro wrestler named "Raven" and his catch phrase is "What about me, what about Raven"?
Yes, what about me, what about Annelid aka Sleestak? I rarely ask for help,or a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on. What's the point? Nobody's going to care or remember the minute they get off line or close Aim or Yahoo and I'll still be miserable.
So I take it all in stride and eat. MMmmmm eating it's what I do best, well that and sleeping. ;)
To quote the wise and learned Dewey "Ox" Oxberger:
"My name is Dewey Oxberger but my friends call me Ox. My doctor says I swallow a lot of aggression, along with alota pizzas. Get it? Pizzas!"
But no more. No more feeling sorry for myself. I've been walking alot,drinking water,trying to eat sensibly. The only sticking point is my sleep patterns...damn you FUBAR!
Shakes fist at screen! Hehe.
I'm slowly changing my attitude. I shall not take everything to heart. Try not to read into everything. I've been doing alot of culling as well. Things that I have but don't use...it goes
to the Salvation Army. To the dead weight on Aim,Yahoo or Fubar...sorry but you have to go. I need a clean slate and it starts...NOW!
I guess you can say I'm like a etch a sketch,don't like it , change it!
It is what it is....and it's going to be better!
