I guess it's about time I do my profile page over again. Since the last time I did this a few things have changed. One, I am a bit less friendly with some people on here. This is because I find that alot take kindness for weakness, which in no way is the way it is with me. I am not a weak person, nor do I treat others that way. I want to be treated the same way I treat others. This in itself, should say something about me. I value my friendships with people, online and offline. I try to be a ear to listen when someone has to vent. And although I will listen I try not to offer too much advice, because what I feel may be good advice, may be for me, not for you.
I was in a long term relationship and found a few hard facts of life. And one is that you don't always know the person as well as you think. Another is that unless the person is ready for a real relationship, you can only hope to be an option in their life, even when they are a priority in yours. I am not as gullible as I used to be so don't go on with with wishy washy compliments and DO NOT call me "Baby", "Sexy" "Hunny" etc. or any pet names you have in mind. My name is Tracianne, most call me Sassy, and others call me Tracy. I answer to MY name, not a name you chose for me.
I do have some questionable pictures on here, and have been known to occassionaly put up or open up my NSFW pictures. Just because I do, doesn't give anyone the right to get vulgar, if you can't keep your comments somewhat well written don't bother to comment. And if you do not like my NSFW pictures, then please do not go to them... AND I put them up for my friends etc. to enjoy, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I want to see your NSFW pictures. In all the years I have been on here, I can count on one hand how many I have looked at, and a few were due to the fact that they were not marked as such.Oh, and before you ask, the answer it NO, I will not cam with you, nor do I choose to talk on another messenger with you. If I want to. you would be the first to know. I would ask, I am not shy and I am able to ask if I should want to do something with you. And please, I don't by any means think I am gorgeous or that I am beautiful, I have no belief that I have a great body, so don't think I am here to impress anyone. I am just not ashamed of me or my body. I am comfortable with what I look like. And it took me a long time to get there, and still I have moments of insecurities. It is a life long struggle I will probably face due to leftover reminders from a relationship where I never felt like I had anything good about me.
I made the mistake once, of loving so deeply that I lost who I was, just because I tried so hard to be what they wanted me to be. And when that proved to not even be good enough, I lost alot of my self esteem. Now that I realize it wasn't me, and that I could be perfect and it still would not have made a difference, I have given up trying to please someone else first. I take care of me now. If you like me GREAT, if you don't, that is OKAY too. I ask only that you don't bring your negativity into my life or onto my page.
Yes, I am in love with someone, whom I will always love. Whether I am with this person in a realtionship or not does not make a difference. I do not fall in love easily nor do I fall out of love easily. When I fall in love, I take the good with the bad and hope for the best. I will do anything and everything within my power to make my significant other happy, in and out of the bedroom. And I do not sleep around. SO any thoughts you may have of some kind of intimacy between us can just fly out of your head. I am not interested in a relationship as such. If you know what FRIENDSHIP means then lets be just that...FRIENDS.
I have 4 children, all which are grown now. The youngest just turning 18. I would die for my children and show their pictures off proudly. IF you have no respect, stay away from the pictures of them, for in no way will I allow you to disrespect them. YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.
I now have a new addition to my family and his name is BONES, a "Min Pin" He is almost a year old. And this little fellow has me heart and soul. Early in his life he was injured trying to get to me and jumped and broke his leg...2 months in a cast and many sleepless nights comforting him gave him and I a bond that cannot be broken. He goes every where with me, and due to medical issues I have, he is now a service dog. He can make me smile when the world is falling apart at my feet. He loves my unconditionally and that is something I have yet to see in any relationships I have seen, mine or others. Therefore, I show off my BONES quite often, and usually he finds a way to be in alot of my pictures.
If you want to get to know me more personally feel free to chat with me or talk to me. Expect an answer unless you were rude, vulgar or haven't observed the guidelines I have set previously in my profile. If ya didn't read them, I usually find that you really aren't that interested in getting to know me. There is more to me than meets the eye.
HERE ARE A FEW THINGS:
1. I can have a wicked sense of humor.
2. I can switch from one subject to the next in a drop of a hat (ADHD at its best)LOL
3. I will help someone if I am able to.
4. I can swear worse than a sailor at times.
5 I am very protective of my family and friends.
6. Anything I say about a person, I will and can say directly to them, if I haven't done so already.
7. If I don't answer you, it is either because I have no time at the moment, or you somehow have offended me by not following my wishes.
8. If someone has a special request for pictures they would like to see, or that they have previously seen on my page, feel free to ask me, I will do what I can.