OK NORMALLY, I'M A VERY UNDERSTANDING PERSON. THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE MY FRIENDS KNOW THIS. BUT THERE IS STUFF THAT I WILL NOT TOLERATE AND I'M FUCKING SICK OF THIS! I HAVE ALREADY GONE THROUGH THIS SO WHEN A FRIEND OR A FAMILY MEMBER IS GOING THROUGH THIS, I JUST WANT TO SHAKE THEM TO WAKE THEM UP OR MAKE THEM SEE! IT IS NOT OK UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE FOR YOUR MAN TO BEAT ON YOU. I DON'T CARE IF THEY FUCKING SLAP YOU, PUNCH YOU, KICK YOU, TRY TO STRANGLE YOU, OR PULL A KNIFE OR ANOTHER KIND OF WEAPON ON YOU. IT'S NOT OK! YES, I KNOW YOU LOVE THIS PERSON, BUT THINK ABOUT IT, IF THEY REALLY LOVED YOU, WOULD THEY BE DOING THIS SHIT? HELL NO! YOU'RE FOOLING YOURSELF IN THINKING THAT THEY LOVE YOU. THEY DON'T! WAKE UP! "I'M SO SORRY, IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN!" YEAH, I'VE HEARD THAT LINE. WHAT THEY REALLY MEAN IS, "I'M NOT REALLY SORRY BECAUSE THE NEXT TIME I GET PISSED OFF IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN, I SWEAR!" THAT'S WHAT THEY REALLY FUCKING MEAN. AND OK, SAY YOUR MAN HAS NEVER PHYSICALLY PUT HIS HANDS ON YOU, BUT WON'T ALLOW YOU TO HAVE FRIENDS OR EVEN COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR FAMILY! THAT IS SO WRONG! WAKE UP AND KICK THEIR ASS TO THE CURB! NOONE DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE A PRISONER! I'M SO TIRED AND WATCHING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY GO THROUGH THIS SHIT WHEN I HAVE ALREADY BEEN THROUGH IT AND THE BEST THING I DID WAS WALK THE FUCK OUTTA THERE! IT WAS THE HARDEST THING I EVER DID IN MY LIFE, CUZ YEAH, I LOVED MY MAN WITH ALL MY HEART, BUT WHEN I FINALLY REALIZED THAT HE DIDN'T REALLY LOVE ME OR HE WOULDN'T BE DOING THAT STUFF TO ME, THAT'S WHEN I GOT UP ENOUGH COURAGE TO WALK OUT. IT WILL BE HARD, BUT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO THROUGH THIS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES? I DIDN'T, AND THAT'S WHY I LEFT, AND THAT'S WHY I'M STILL ALIVE TODAY, BECAUSE I DID LEAVE. BOTTOM LINE. IT'S NOT OK FOR YOUR MAN TO ABUSE YOU IN ANY WAY. MEN WHO HIT THEIR WOMAN ARE LOWER THAN SCUM IN MY OPINION. GIRLS, WAKE THE FUCK UP!
