How To Create "Chemistry" With Women
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***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Dave,
I just got your mailbag on younger women perfect
timing! I have your book and the advances series
and let me make it perfectly clear to people who
need answers, GET THE PROGRAM, BOOK, CD, DVD what
ever get it. Without this information you will
have significant shrinkage and eventually forget
that your little appendage is for more than
peeing. Stop staying home and giving yourself what
you want, it is so simple and many questions you
have will be answered for you, even better you
will learn how to answer them on your own, JUST DO
IT!!! There is a show on about some average guys
and a beautiful woman, watch it there is only one
guy who "gets it" and the rest are "nice" guys.
See who gets her attention.
I have always been slightly successful with
getting dates, usually women my own age or a few
years younger. I am 37 bald, have a child who
lives with me, and I have poor posture due to
arthritis. (using Dave's teachings none of this
stuff is a barrier) I figure why not use Dave's
stuff and try younger women so I did. SUCCESS
DUDES
So I go for coffee everyday,(I always look in a
hurry and NEVER sit down to gawk at her) there is
a nice young girl (an 8 she is 20) who works at
the counter, here is the story I know it is long
but you guys need to know that I tried doing
exactly what Dave says and I use different things
for women all the time with success but this time
I tried to follow his exact teaching on a younger
woman.
Tease her Look her in the eye at all times, even
when she looks away, she blushes. get e-mail a few
times ask for her number so we could meet for
coffee. she does not produce her number I go for
coffee with a friend (my excuse to stay and sit
down) where she works, we sit down, she sits with
us I ask her if she e-mailed her number to me, she
said give me your number first, I say no you can't
have it I bet you are a stalker, and besides I
asked for yours not if i could give you mine, I
tell her to go back to work my friend and I have
important things to talk about. My friend thought
I was rude and said so, he told her she was
beautiful and she could stay if she wanted, I told
her again to go back to work and to get her number
ready for when I left.
My friend said I would not get her number, I
said so what? He said I was crazy and I blew it
with her. I knew better. we talked, finished
coffee we started walking out, My friend went to
say goodbye, she called me over and handed me her
number. Friend is being wuss, he actually said to
her that he would be nicer to her than me. I just
laughed and said this better be your number if not
I would haul off and give you a dirty look. Friend
said I was embarrassing to him. Went to bar that
night with friend, cocky and funny all night I got
5 e-mails and 1 wedding proposal. Friend is
shocked how I could get numbers and not buy drinks
or even be nice (not mean, just direct and cocky
and funny).
Friends number list 0.
Call waitress in the morning to meet for coffee.
I told her what time I would be there. I said if
you want to come be there on time and I asked if
she was flaky she said no I am not flaky, because
then I would tell someone else to meet me instead.
She showed up. I asked her questions, so did she.
I would give her answers, like, she wanted to know
my age, I wouldn't tell her she persisted, many
times, I was getting annoyed so I told her not 36
and not 38 figure it out. I never gave a direct
answer. I did the hand reading thing, I did the
palm massage thing, I did the oww you hurt me if
she touched me then she was trying to rub my leg I
moved her hand away, this was all within the first
10 mins. I reached under behind her knee (guys you
must learn where this spot is, it drives them
wild) and gave her a quick rub there. She said I
just made her well, not dry. 20 mins she wanted to
drag me under the table, I told her I was leaving.
I walked her outside and she asks which way I was
going, I said south, she wanted a ride home, I
changed my mind and told her I was going to go
North now. I grabbed her gently by the back of her
hair and kissed her and said goodbye. I opened my
door and she jumped in and said I was to drive her
home. I went and got gas then I drove her home. I
kissed her again then told her to get out. She
asked me to come in for some good stuff. I said NO
I am busy. She said no one says no to me, I said
well I do, now get out of my truck. She was
shocked, I bet no one ever did say no to her. (I
wanted to go get me some I can tell you).
I phoned her about 3 hours later, she sounded
busy, wink wink, I asked what she was doing she
said I got her so excited she had to take care of
it herself and she was thinking about me. She
wanted me to talk dirty on the phone while she
"did it" I said no, then I said I would be home at
8pm she could come over for a nice massage but
that was all, if she wasn't there by 8:10 I was
going out. She was at my door at 8 sharp.
Well not to kiss and tell, she wanted to be in
control, I put her off wouldn't let her touch me,
told her she was a spoiled brat and I wouldn't put
up with it and if we were going to go any further
it would be on my terms and when I said so. She
was going wild! She said no one had ever taken
control like that. I did take her to the bedroom
after some fun resistance on my part, told her
what I wanted and she finally asked if I was going
to do it with her, I said when you beg, she said
she never begs for it I said well you better get
dressed and leave then, 20 mins of massage and
light touching she begged, 3 hours later we were
laying there and I told her she had to go, she
said no. I told her I would dress her, which I did
and told her I had to get some sleep, she told me
to call her, I said no you call me at 4pm. She did
and now she wants to spend the week together, I
said no I am busy. She called back and asked if we
could meet up one day she wanted to bring a
friend. I said Tuesday. Man I am good (PS my
friend is still alone in the shower. Get the stuff
and don't be like my friend).
Thanks Dave
OH BTW young woman beautiful 22, red head I
always make eye contact with her, she will not
back down and now she initiates the contact if I
don't. I know she is going to be lots of fun ;)
R.G. ONT. Canada
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, and I thought that I was the king of run-
on sentences and bending the language called
English to suit my own needs...
But you get the Gold Medal, my friend.
And you also get the prize for "getting" my
stuff better than most guys.
As I read your email, I realized that there are
a few "key points" that you understand:
1) Most guys can't get over their need for instant
gratification.
The reality is that men and women have some key
differences when it comes to how they experience
ATTRACTION.
Men have an "On/Off" switch, and women have a
"Volume Knob".
Men want gratification NOW, and can't grasp the
concept that women have a more complex internal
"Attraction Mechanism" that needs to be turned up
gradually... and in specific ways.
You have internalized and "gotten" the idea
that teasing, leaning back, and not taking
advantage of offers from women lead to them
wanting you MORE... not less.
2) Most guys don't know how to spark ATTRACTION or
recognize sexual tension or "chemistry"... thus
the friend's comments of "she's not into you" and
him telling the girl that "he'd be nicer",
thinking she'd somehow like him for that.
The reality is that for most men, the concept
of ATTRACTION is a complete mystery.
They don't understand chemistry or sexual
tension, and they wouldn't recognize it in a
million years.
Further, whenever most guys feel ANY kind of
"tension" in a situation with a woman, they do
whatever they can to RELEASE the tension...
...not understanding that women ENJOY sexual
tension... and that this tension is at the heart
of what women call "Chemistry".
You clearly understand how to SPARK that
initial tension and chemistry, and you also
clearly understand that teasing, creating
anticipation and turning this tension UP makes
women feel more attracted to you.
Your friend, on the other hand, does NOT get it
at all. Your friend should go read THIS to learn
how to create chemistry and tension with women:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/SexualCommunication/
I always love it when I'm playing with a girl
and teasing her, and some guy says, "Oh, he
doesn't mean it". I always say, "Yeah I mean it"
in a serious, sarcastic tone.
Most men just don't get that women are not
attracted to ASS KISSING behavior.
Ever.
3) Most guys don't understand that just because a
woman feels some attraction for them doesn't mean
that she wants to have sex right then.
Whenever most guys get a signal or indication
from a woman that she even MIGHT be attracted,
they take it to mean "she wants to have sex with
me".
Then what do most guys do?
They SCREW IT UP.
Exactly.
If a woman demonstrates that she's digging you,
that's your cue to LEAN BACK.
Chill out.
Be cool, dude.
Relax.
One of the best ways to make that feeling of
ATTRACTION she's feeling go away instantly is to
try to take advantage of it too soon.
Which leads me to my next observation...
4) Most guys don't know how to AMPLIFY the
ATTRACTION, and INCREASE sexual tension.
Like I mentioned earlier, most men become
uncomfortable when there's tension, and they do
things to RELEASE it instead of AMPLIFY it.
Why is this?
Because they don't know that there are specific
ways to build this sexual tension to the point
where a woman will literally jump on you... and
they don't know how the process works in the first
place.
There is an important concept that you need to
understand when it comes to making women feel a
powerful ATTRACTION and AROUSAL...
That concept is called ANTICIPATION.
Most men don't like anticipation.
We want what we want NOW. Not later... NOW.
Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.
Women like to think about things happening and
imagine what they'd be like... and even sort of
"tease themselves" with ideas of what might
happen.
Women really enjoy the PROCESS of being teased,
when it's done in the right way.
You have demonstrated that you GET IT when it
comes to teasing and building anticipation.
And it's nice to hear that even 37-year-old
guys with bad posture and kids living at home can
meet girls! lol...
If you're reading this right now and wondering
how YOU can learn to get these kinds of results
with women, then LISTEN UP!
I have spent YEARS of my life watching guys who
are "naturally" successful with women, and then
refining what I've learned, testing out the
techniques and putting them together...
And if you'd like to get the best education
available ANYWHERE on how to overcome your shyness
and fear, approach women, get emails and numbers,
get dates, and take things to a "physical level"
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are, to where you want to be with women and
dating... I promise it.
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.