So today i had a custody hearing with my ex husband , because ever since september of 2006 when the original ordered was put in effect the kids have all come home complaining that hes abusing them . Well they didn't have marks so there wasn't anything i could legally do except sit and wait for him to screw up .. well he finally did !! .. So i went to modify the existing order , and get full emergency custody , which ofcourse was granted due to the severity of the allegations ..
So this morning while i'm sittin there telling the hearing officer everything , all i can hear is my ex talkin smack under his breath .. so everything he was saying i was bringing up , which was basically the assanine accustations he wanted to make against me LoL like i get my kids high *i dont do drugs thanks* and that i have sexually abused my kids *Ummmmm i'm not the one who's been screwing 13 yr olds for years!*.. anyway after i explained everything to the court . I was asked what i'd like the outcome to be , i replied as calmly as possible that While its not my intent or right to sever the ties of a father child relationship , I do think that their safety is the most important thing !! .. So i requested that i be given full legal custody *meaning that all decisions regarding ; school , church , and medical issues be made solely by me. The hearing officer agreed , when it came to visitation , i said i wanted it to be decreased to 1 day a week , for the first 3-6 months they should also be supervised by either someone from the court or cps , or hell even a member of his family , Just someone that would insure that nothing was goin down that shouldn't be .. Finally i requested that he be drug tested before each visit due to the fact my daughter tested positive for THC from being in a car with him while he was blazin up ! .. When the officer looked at him , he said and i quote " fuck her , fuck this shit , i'm done , sign em away bobbie .. i want nothing to do with the little bastards ..
So in effect he actually chose drugs over his own kids ... He said he was throwin them away like he does all his garbage :( ... So anyway for the next few weeks/ months i probably won't be on as much , seeing as how i now have to be both mom and dad to all of my kids , Oh wait .. i've done that for years anyway .. But i still need to damage control , So if u want to talk to me , look me up on messenger , Or something and don't be suprised if you don't hear from me right away because frankly i wouldn't choose anything over my kids :)
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