Women who hold out on their hubbies
I've been known to rant here and there and some find it funny or interesting or down right offensive.........oh well.
I was listening to a radio show the other day ( i like listenin to morning shows) and the topic was about this cat that wrote a book on relationships. The book suggested that married women withhold from havin sex with their husbands once in awhile and make them more or less work for it or want it more. now we arent talking about a few days here i mean they where talking about holding out for some time. So then they had listeners calling in on the topic and alot of them where agreeing and some disagreed of course. Well allow me to put my 2 cents in.
These very same women that are holding out on the sex department are the same ones that have their husbands running around cheatin on them, believe me if you dont want to give it to your husband there are plenty of women who will. These are the same ones that when their marriage falls apart they look at you and say " I dont know what happened I thought everything was just fine and this comes along"... now I'm not saying its right to cheat or anything like that, but come on now think about it, what kinda logic is that? what sense does that make? Now if he's just a boyfriend I can understand ( I guess)....but your hubby?
now of course there are people that are into that type of thing as sex play, so we are excuding that, whole different ballgame right there. but lets talk about a so called normal vanilla relationship......HOLDING OUT?? and THEN want to act surprised when shyt doesnt go their way or when shyt falls apart, like you didnt see that one comming a mile away...everybody else did.
like i always say, anything is possible when it comes to matters of the heart.
and guys, YES GUYS if you are running around sticking your dick into everything that passes by you, if you stay your ass out all night at the club or where ever it is, if you are out there acting bad, dont act all surprised if she aint home when you get back. dont act surprised when she is ready to leave your azz, then you all lookin stupid whinnin to your homies or ya momma talkin bout you luv her. dont act surprised if you been out all dayum night doin whatever and you pissd her off and you get home and she dont want to give you no pussy. that isnt classified as holdin out, that is classified as you fucked yo shyt up. if you woulda went and had one beer like you said and got home at a decent hour then you had a shot, if you get off work at 2pm friday and you show up at home at 7am saturday morning, you MIGHT NOT get any pussy.
Why play games? If you're both up for it then go for it married or not....we are past the days when women are sluts etc...The only people that refer to women as sluts anymore are other women that are jealous or men that wanted to hook up and either couldnt, didnt have enough game or didnt for whatever reason...go figure that one who woulda known.
