Not many people can fully grasp the meaning behind that phrase. As simplistic as it is. If you have interest in someone or even claim to be in love with someone, it should show. I do not merely mean from time to time. No, it should be obvious in everything you do. Many people like to throw the "L-word" out, but there actions do not back up their claims. They may not even use the word love, but express great feelings of emotion and attraction instead. Despite what it may be, it is still emotions. Emotions are fine when they are your own. However, when your emotions become intertwined with another's, it takes on a different meaning and transcends to a different level.
There is more than just one party involved at this point.
So many times here, I get messaged or approached with compliments or someone taking an interest. I do appreciate that very much so. However, when that is the only message or contact you have with me, I have to then chalk it up to a brief encounter. Why is that? We're all adults here. I am not unapproachable. Life is too short people. Life is one big brief encounter anyway. Why add more smaller ones. You may just find that there is more depth to me than you originally thought. SO many peopple here are afraid of interaction. I suppose that is why they prefer it through a computer monitor. However, it should also make communication easier. It's a double-edged sword really. I do realize that a lot of people here are losers or perverts or sycophants. However, if you do not talk to someone...... how will yo ever know who is or who isn't. Sometimes it is as simplistic as merely reading their profile or other things they have written. Even looking at there friends profiles to see what they have written there. Do a little bit of homework people. The internet makes it so easy to be lazy as it is. Not everyone here is fake or puts on false heirs.
There are many fakes here also. I have viewed so many profiles where people have two different pictures of themselves which are of two different people all together. The sad thing is, they claim both are one and the same and that both are them. What sickens me is guys are so desperately horny that they do not even see this and comment on both as if they actually were the same person. Now I do not know about you but, if I see a pic of a girl with a round nose and chin line...then another with a narrow nose and squared chin and also different eyes, I'm going to know it is not the same person. It must be the artist in me. Or the fact that I am into computer graphics. I don't know. However, I can tell a fake profile and pics very easily. Yes, I am well aware that I have many on my own friend's list.
Another prime example is these nsfw pics women have. Guys, come on, here's a clue...if they all look professional and none of them show the face...........they are probably fake. Breasts can only change so much. IF the breasts look one color and shape in one pic and another in a different pic........get a clue. If a woman has pale complexion with no freckles in one pic and tanned or freckled in another and still not showing her face................well...you get the idea. Ignorance is bliss I suppose.
Some of us have nothing to hide or to lose. I really think that is one of my draw-backs actually. I think I am TOO real for most. When you are used to certain conditions or used to be treated a certain way by people, you come to expect it. Often times when it is not prevailent, you inadvertantly create it. It's the same concept as Eden. Eden would not be acceptable today. Utopia would drive humanity insane. We would all be sitting around waiting for the negative side to occur. Questioning everything. Actually creating drama to take us to a place that we are used to.
I'm a very simple person. I try not to complicate things any more than they are. I usually look for the most simplest and basic of answers or reasons. This not does not mean that I am un-intelligent. It also does not mean that I do not know all of the hidden factors of a situation. I just do not choose to dwell on those lttle tangents. It means that I weigh out the situation and combine all the factors into one simple theory.
So many people try to change the past or get back with an old flame. It is the past for a reason people. You can not go back and change the past. If it were possible to fix past mistakes...then you would not have wanted to go back and change it to begin with and therefore never would have... Bottom line.....everything happens for a reason. Life is about progression. Moving forward. When I encounter people who live like this I think of it as weakness or cowardness. A fear of what may come. A fear of tomorrow. So easily accepting the mundanity of their existance. Never questing for more. They remain in the safe harbor of familiarity. Afraid to step outside their own world and see what may be. Which goe sback to those two infamous words that drive us in this cynical world............WHAT IF?
I suppose what I am trying to say here is...if you want to talk to me or know me..........do it! Do not claim to be interested in me on any level and barely speak to me beond initial contact. Actions speak louder than words.
