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What are you waiting for?
Well I have been doing some thinking as late and while I always new an "About Me" section would never ever be finished, I have determined that its definitely a "living" document that will be expounded on from time to time. Most of the time it's going to grow from some experience that I have had that has affected me in such a way that there is a personal shift in my way of thinking, way of living or way of being and such. Other times it's just going to be updated to include things that were overlooked previously and that should be stated because too many assumptions (a bad thing by the way) were made about me, about things, etc.
So... first on the list for some truly dear friends of mine:
Honestly, if these are skills that everyone else on the planet has and I don't, then I was apparently wandering around on the day they gave those out. I didn't even see those on the list of abilities once you get to "Oracle" here on Fubar.
So I guess..... if you want me to know that while you were chatting with me, you decided to step away to go to the bathroom, then your mom called, and 45 minutes later your dinner that you decided to start cooking (before your mom called and right after the bathroom) started burning and you had to start all over from scratch after hanging up with your mom... Only to return to the chat window 2 hours after we started chatting.... Im assuming you'd probly NEED to tell me that.
There is NO WAY on God's green earth I would have ever in my life thought to think while I was sitting here off and on for 2 hours waiting for you to respond to what I said (is this indicative of having no life or sincere dedication to pay attention to you and have a decent information exchange?), that you had basically just left me hanging and "life" got in the way.
Im not saying that "everyone" would think that this sort of scenario is rude. Apparently the person doing such a thing didn't think it was rude because he was the one that kinda chewed my a$$ for thinking something like.... "Wow.... I havent heard from him in a while... I wonder if I said something wrong?" Im not allowed to think that, Im not allowed at all to come to any sort of conclusion based on what I know of the situation. I assume that the learning experience for me is to just across the board assume that anyone that "chats" with me online is merely seeking to pass the time and if they stop responding to me something more interesting has taken over and I should go find something else to do. Otherwise, if conversing with me was important; the person wanting to communicate with me, will call or ask to meet me for coffee if it is logistically possible. (The calling or meeting in person is actually MANDATORY if an misunderstanding/argument has ensued. If you dont have the time to call or meet then consider this cyber connection dissolved. Thank you for playing our game.)
Whew.... more to come.
