Things that I have learned ... and this might be something I learned recently, or that I just got the light bulb on in one of the Depressive/Manic phases of my "Bipolarness" (either way the list will continue to grow considering I love learning... even the hard lessons).
1. That as much as I and most of my colleagues consider the internet a useful means of communication and connectivity to people we might not have ever run into in "real life"; the rest of the world seems to think it's one big SIMSONLINE game where you pick a character and a personality .... and "act" out scenarios that otherwise they dont have the b*lls to handle in real life. Its just so easy to come here and be something your not, to the people who are actually Authentic. Authenticity.... word of the day!!
2. That no matter how much you think you can change someones mind about something.... its their mind... and Only they can change it. This would apply to things like.... "Well I thought I could change him once we got married" and other things along the same lines.
3. That Macs, are way better than PC; Hands Down. (dont hate on me Scott you just want my Mac, you want it, you know it! - giggles)
4. That some ppl are stupid enough to take their 8 year olds to Vegas!!!! Um hello didnt someone coin the phrase that Vegas is the Disneyland for ADULTS!! Sin City for a reason ppl...
5. That there should be mandatory sterilization for some states ;) lets start with MS, AL, AR and Mexico (yes i know its a country but isnt Baja california still a state considering the illegals come and go from there as they please)
6. That even in California, I am still surrounded by Conservativism that is absolutely smothering me.
7. That after ten years, ex boyfriends can forgive and still love you for the wonderful person that they always thought you were. And I love you back!
8. That for some reason... love can't/won't/doesn't last forever and well.... I guess you just have to be ok with that.
9. That most people .... are really not willing to be a real
friend.
10. VERY few people know what
polyamorous means. Most people confuse it for Polygamy, or twist it into something that suits their own use.
11. That for whatever reason, some people are just going to be d*ckheads. It's in their blood. They are wishy washy- they say they are interested in meeting you and then continually come up with excuses as to why they cant or they turn it around and say YOU arent doing anything to make it happen. Odd how that works... as it really does seem to be against a law of physics or something. pffft They are Flakey which kinda maps back to the wishy washy thing. They are completely self absorbed and when you arent catering to their self worshipping then you fall below par on the worthiness scale and so on....
As of 7/1/2008; this is it for now.
*kttn*
