3 Tips For Being Cocky & Funny With Women
>One of the most powerful things I've ever
discovered is that women respond incredibly well
to the combination of play-arrogance plus good
humor... mixed together into what I call "Cocky &
Funny". If you'd like to learn the way to use it
to create attraction, then go read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/CockyComedy/
***DATING QUESTION FROM READER***
Mr. DeAngelo,
Your E-book has made my dating life a complete
Cinderella story. The reality that I live in now
would just be unimaginable to myself in the
mind set I held over a year ago. In high school,
I was your typical acne scarred, pasty, out of
shape, dungeons and dragons-type shy loser. When I
started college, however, I became so determined
and focused on doing WHATEVER it takes to
completely turn my life around, that things
started to change faster than I could imagine. I
started working out, eating right, and I started
listening to Anthony Robbins and Brian Tracy audio
tapes to sort of build a base on which I could set
my goals in life and reprogram all the garbage and
limiting beliefs in my head. Invariably, I came
upon my dating life and decided to do whatever it
make myself as attractive as possible. at 19, I
had never previously kissed a girl or even had the
guts to ask one out.. was always the shy guy. But
I was determined to be the biggest ladies man on
campus, and with your help I've made this happen.
Of all the self-improvement type stuff I have
invested in, I must say that your e-book and
monthly series was definitely the best and most
rewarding investment I have ever made. And coming
from my position, this is a huge compliment. Some
people don't know what they are missing out on by
not investing in your program.
Everything in life all comes down to a decision.
If you think that you deserve great women, great
relationships, and a better quality of life
overall, then you owe it to yourself to try out
David's E-book, monthly series, and advanced
series. If it doesn't work after-all, he is giving
you the chance to send it back! Hrmm.. maybe I
should stop there.. i don't want my competition to
become too fierce.
And now comes a very important question which I
don't think has been addressed at all.. I think
I've come to the point where I've mastered my
"inner game".. My body language is hypnotic and
forceful, physically I'm in the best shape I could
possibly be in, my presence around other people is
very charismatic and domineering. My ease and
complete comfort ability in being myself around
women is just... I guess magnetic. I'm usually
the life of the party when in a group situation.
Of course, I'm not saying this to brag... All of
these things I have worked on, just like any other
skill.. on to the question: do you think there is
ever such a point where a person has to transcend
the cocky and funny approach? I'm beginning to
think that with all I've got going for me that if
I lay on C&F too heavily I just become
unapproachable to many women, and I've noticed now
more than ever that EXTREMELY beautiful women do
get very nervous around me especially with all the
other characteristics I've come to master.
If you're ever in Atlanta, drinks are on me
Dave.
-D from Atlanta
>>>MY COMMENTS:
First of all, I want to congratulate you from
taking your life from a place where you were 19
years old and had never kissed a girl... or even
asked a girl out... to where you are taking good
care of yourself, respecting your body, and doing
the things you need to do to get where you want to
go in life.
As you know, I get a lot of email from guys who
need advice about situations with women, and it
really amazes me how many of those guys haven't
taken the time to really get the BASICS handled...
I'm talking about the simple things like
keeping yourself healthy, addressing your
psychological issues... becoming an honest,
authentic person... and all that self-help-ish
stuff that most people think is kind of dorky...
This stuff is KEY to success with women.
There is a very interesting transformation that
takes place when a guy gets his life together, and
begins living the way he WANTS to live.
As your email communicates clearly, your new-
found confidence is very closely related to your
self-improvement program.
I hope this encourages others to do the same,
and to realize that the rewards are so amazing
that it's worth it.
Let's talk about your question...
You asked if there ever comes a time when you
should "transcend" the Cocky & Funny approach...
because women sometimes become nervous around you,
etc.
Let me answer that with a few random points
that come to mind, and then I'll tie it all
together with my general perspective...
1) You have cultivated a strong, confident,
dominant body language and communication that has
become what you might call "INNER COCKY".
As a result, you don't have to mix quite as
much "Cocky" in the actual verbal conversations
you're having.
If you project too much of the INNER COCKY,
while at the same time using overly-cocky WORDS as
well, you might come off as INSECURE or even TOO
ARROGANT.
Now I don't say things like this very often,
because most guys are so far from being "too
cocky" that there's almost NOTHING they could do
to project even ENOUGH cocky.
NOTE: If you need more work on your INNER game,
then you should go read this before you go on:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/DeepInnerGame/
2) There is a particular situation that comes up
for guys who have a strong physical presence... or
guys who are naturally very handsome...
If these guys are too cocky with women, many
women get a first impression that is basically
"You must be a jerk".
Be careful. It might backfire on you.
3) If a woman is getting nervous around you, it
does NOT mean that you're doing something wrong.
Just think about how you used to feel when you
were in the presence of a super-hot woman.
Most guys become EXTREMELY nervous in these
types of situations... so much so that they're
actually IMMOBILIZED... and unable to act.
If a beautiful fashion model wrote in to me and
told me that guys get nervous around her all the
time... and then she asked if she should somehow
"tone down" how she looks so guys wouldn't become
nervous, I'd respond to her and say "Hell no. You
WANT guys to become nervous around you because it
separates the REAL men from the WUSSIES...".
In your case, these women are becoming nervous
because THEY don't know how to handle the
situation... which is not a problem at all for you
or for the ATTRACTION she's feeling.
Look, you are becoming a POWERFUL MAN.
You are beginning to realize and cultivate some
of the natural potential that you've always had
inside... you just didn't know how to get at it
before.
Success and power often scare people, because
with success and power comes responsibility.
You realize that you're not a victim in your
life anymore, and you begin to see how you can
take control of almost every aspect of your
life... and then you begin to see that people want
to FOLLOW your lead because you have this power...
It is magnetic, as you mentioned.
To answer your question directly, and connect
all of these things together, I think that you
need to realize that Cocky & Funny can be thought
of in a lot of ways...
It's a concept, an idea. It's a technique, with
specific "comebacks" and "lines" for different
funny situations. It's a tool to use for creating
Sexual Tension and Chemistry with women.
But, as far as I'm concerned, it's FUN... it's
something that's enjoyable for the man AND the
woman.
And for most guys, it's very natural (once you
become comfortable with it).
I mean, if you like to think in terms of things
being "transcended" in life, we could just say
that you're on the path to transcend everything,
and the faster you can transcend your need to be
with women, the better off you are...
...but, then again, that might be going a
little too far... lol.
As I read your letter, I thought to myself:
"He needs to learn the Advanced material"...
I think that you need to continue on your self-
improvement track... and I think that you really
should be dealing with a different issue.
Instead of focusing on one technique, I think
you need to be learning more about this particular
area of your life... and I think you need to be
focusing on figuring out how YOU want to do it.
My advice?
Get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.
One of the most important aspects of this
program is the "Inner Game" material included with
the program.
I spend several hours helping you understand
the psychology and dynamics of becoming the kind
of person you want to become... which then creates
a kind of FOUNDATION for the other things you're
learning from me.
It really is something that will change the way
you see things forever... and help you take your
success with women to the next level MUCH faster.
I think you'll learn a lot of things from that
program that you'll use IMMEDIATELY to get the
results you're looking for.
It's here...
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/AdvancedSeries/
If you'd like to get yourself an AMAZING
education and training in this area that I call
"Cocky & Funny", then you need to get your hot
hands on my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD program.
Not only will you learn how and why we LAUGH
(hint: it's not why you think), but you'll also
learn literally DOZENS of different ways to use
Cocky & Funny to create ATTRACTION with women.
Go watch some of the preview video clips here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/CockyComedy/
And if you're reading this right now, and
you're thinking to yourself, "I want to know how
this guy went from being 19 and never even KISSING
or asking a girl out... to having this kind of
power and confidence...", then start by
downloading my online eBook FIRST. It's the best
introduction to my concepts available and you can
download it right now and be reading it within a
few minutes. Read it while you're waiting for my
Advanced Series to arrive... It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.