First. I knew this person for a while. Met her in person maybe once or twice. She would only text me and send me nudes of herself. No phone conversations. I knew her for 10 plus years. A few weeks ago her mother died and prior to that her brother died. She got mad because I did not attend the wake. I dont like funerals. thats one, two. She couldnt even pick up the phone and talk to me for the 10 years. And when I tried calling she never answered. Am I wrong for not attending the funerals?
Second. I knew this person for 18 years. I wasn't keen on visiting her or seeing her since she was an addict. During the pandemic - she was so desperate to get out of New York - a 60 yr old from Florida came to pick her up and take her to Florida (she's about my age) He paid for her cell phone and the games she played on line. Even for her addiction. Until one day he messages me saying she's back up in here. She has Hep C, and I find out - she's not here legally - She says that "she's a princess - does not cook nor clean nor do anything". Should I bother seeing her or getting into a relationship with her?