Q: How would you discipline your children...?
A: This was a serious issue with kids by my 1st marriage,and I knew wife was spoiling them but she took control of the kids and they ganged up on me. Finally at 42 when they went wild as teenagers refusing to go to high school, I eventually was tormented enough and we got divorced. I read numerous books on discipline at that time and there seem to be about 3 kinds of discipline of which might whichever to be used selected according to what the child responds to: 1. time out 2. withhold privilege 3. modest spanking 4. "tough love" where you have such a support group and they have to go live with another family until they will behave. 5. if they break the law awfully try to sick the cops on them, although legal system tends to hold the parents responsible until kid reaches age 17. I was spanked a few times as a kid.
Q: Do you think couples should argue in front of their kids...?
A: DEFINITELY NOT NEVER NO WAY, BECAUSE IT UNDERMINES EVERYTHING.
A: However, at some point perhaps that need to see "demos" of arguments so that they learn how an argument should be handled.
Q: Ohh yes you are right and sometime couples should go to the bed room to argue lol
A: Some folks believe that making up via having great sex is the best solution. I don't know about that. It perhaps works for some people.... I might not want for the bedroom to get associated in my mind as the place where all the arguments take place, perhaps instead have another room where we can GO AND HAVE IT INSULATED AND DOORS LOCKED . lol
Q: Yes lol
A: I don't want throwing things and destroying things to be happening when we have arguments, except perhaps throw something somewhere safe where also it mostly cannot be broken.
Q: Yes
