And yet, I'm going to manage to find them, I'll betcha. ;-)
I haven't been on the site for a while, as some of you have noticed. I have been wrapped up in a couple of my other sites. I am a chat admin at AdultSpace, which takes up some time. Also, I have spent a lot of time on my MySpace page,
Now, I find myself deeply embroiled in some drama that has my world turned upside down. I have a new "friend", and throught this friend, I introduced my best friend to his friend. So, after knowing him for three days, she ups and leaves her husband for him!
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They live across the street from me! Everyday, I have to deal with the emotional backlash with her 12 year old daughter. I pace the yard with her husband, trying to help him make sense of what doesn't make any damned sense to ME!
I should say that my husband and I have an open marriage. We DO this sort of thing. They DO NOT! I thought I had some sense talked into her the day before. Then, that night, we were supposed to just be going out. Next thing I know, I'm the only one going home. WTF?????????????????
I feel like I have been punched in the gut, almost as badly as her husband. I obviously don't know her nearly as well as I thought I did. She just keeps doing things that make me want to bitch slap her. I love this woman with all my heart. She has walked through fire with me. But, I'm ready to throw her off a fucking cliff!
The sad part is that he is a great guy. In another time and place, he would be the perfect guy for her. I hope he doesn't end up getting screwed over, too. I hope like hell he's taking notes!
Her 2 year old seems to be adjusting to seeing her for a few hours a day, but that is probably about to come to an abrupt end. The 12 yo is shattered.
What a fucked up world. I need a hug!
